Yea sure I can talk about it. Well, the first time was when I was about 21 and moved from the west coast. I met a guy online by selling my skateboard on Craig’s list. He pulled up on a Vespa and was my age, he introduced himself as Tyler and asked if I wanted to chill. I lived by myself at the time so when he wanted to smoke weed with me at his place I was surprised but accepted. (I don’t smoke anymore). He was good looking dude with shaggy blonde hair and lots of charisma and a boyish charm that made him a lady killer. I was always trying to take notes lol. After a few weeks we really bonded, I considered him a close friend and admired him for being so insanely good at attracting hot girls and just having a generally affectionate manner towards me. Lots of shoulder hugs and drunken wrestling, but respectful stuff. So one day after about 3 months I got a call from a jail, it was him saying he had nobody to pick him up and didn’t know who else to call so I rushed over to make sure my friend was alright yknow? After picking him up we came back to my apt to have some tequila and unwind, figured he’d had a rough night so I didn’t ask what happened. He had gotten in a fight at a bar over some dude hitting his girl and he stepped up and took him on. I told him how admirable that was, and he started calling me an angel and saying I’m the only one he has, none of his friends or family helped him. I could definitely relate since I was living alone and planning to move again soon. Then we ended up getting so trashed it became a huge wrestling match again as usual but this time he kind of pinned me down longer than usual and started making gay jokes, I just figured he was too drunk nothing serious, but all the time he kept telling me he loved me and stuff like that. I’ve never been talked to romantically from a guy before and I got really nervous because it was so genuine and affectionate. Trying to keep it light I told him he’s too drunk and carried him to the spare bed. Out of nowhere he stood up straight and kissed me right on the mouth! I was speechless! And before I could say anything he pressed harder and we started making out, felt like my body went limp and my brain short circuited because I just let it happen, it felt genuine and natural, but I was afraid because it was so new, even when I tried to back up he just pressed harder forward on me and I couldn’t think straight or do anything about it. I was totally helpless. We ended up rubbing eachother chest to chest and twisted up on the bed but never took out pants off. (Shirts we’re already off from wrestling) the rest is a blur but I woke up the next day with him big spooning me. And got out of bed. Of course we both played the “what happened I don’t remember anything” card and laughed it off. But ended up even closer friends after that day. Kinda like our secret “best friend” Experience. It was a first I’ll never forget. We both moved not long after but we still keep in touch.
So yea... that was Tyler the lady killer, my first experience.