Are they really straight?

[JohnnyG919]

That's exactly how I respond to the question. Once people find out I do gay porn, they say "Oh, so you're bi then, right?" My response is always along these lines:

"I don't have sex with guys off camera lol. If that's bisexual then yes I am bi"

haha

What a shame. I could eat you for dessert.

 

[glenn323]

Sexuality is so complex and different for everyone. Personally, I can't imagine a scenario where I would be able to get an erection in order to have sex with a woman--- so the whole 'gay for pay' thing is foreign to me.
I'm sure at least some of the guys on Broke Straight Boys are indeed straight and are able to get hard and perform only for the money. However, I believe the majority of the Broke Straight Boys models are probably gay. It's also funny to me that the ones who protest the loudest always seem to have NO TROUBLE getting hard-- I will mention no names.

 

[mikeyank]

Its funny I spent 1/4 of my adult life straight married happy for the most part..
2nd 1/4 got divorced still happy and friends with the ex but experimenting with guys still enjoying life and considered myself straight but free.. 3rd 1/4 saying I am bi sexual
and now… I say do what you enjoy my.. partner/soon to be husband who is younger by half my age tells me there is no such thing as gay, bi or straight its what you are comfortable with.
I have my own twist on things I think ones life dictates how one finds his sexual being
Mine were events that just led me down a path of discovering myself no traumatic events (over bearing mothers or abusive males in my life just random happenings) falling for my H.S. sweetheart getting married have a son falling out of love getting divorced. Going to a Dead concert smoking some good weed and having great m/m sex for the first time In my hotel room (sorry early 90s no flowered vans) than almost a year goes by and I was hit on at the beach by a spring breaker guy and so on and so on after 6 or 7 years I was primarily 90% into guys. Now I am 100% into one guy. Call me gay that’s fine or Bi I am ok with that (call me a fagot your going home in a cast) its what one likes and who one loves that make the person. Having sex feels good with who ever (male or female) your with and it only lasts so long the part that makes it great is the person your with when the sex is finished.

jt

Thank you so much for telling us about your life experience. I do find it both fascinating and erotic to read the story of a straight guy who discovers that sex with another dude can be pleasurable. The fact that your first gay encounter happened in a hotel room, while stoned after a Dead show also interests me, as one of my hottest sexual experiences ever came when I was 31 and my friend was 19, and he was a huge Deadhead. I was his first, and he tells me the only man to ever make love to him. He is married with two kids today.

By the way, the story of the spring breaker on the beach sounds hot too. But overall, I am so happy for you that you've found true love with your man, and that your ex-wife if so accepting of your current situation. Thanks for sharing.

 

[coxy57]

There are so many facets to this question, that it can and has been debated forever. You can bring into it, what turns someone on, not just what they will physically participate in, and keep going back and forth, and never agree on a conclusion.

I (just me) believe that the real answer is about who you can develop feelings for. Some people truly can have sex with anyone, but who can you fall in love with?

Boy have you nailed it. I believe who you let into your bed has nothing to do with if you are gay or not, it is who you let into your heart that matters. I think if more guys would quit fretting about being labled gay they would have a better sex life.

 

[jasonaz]

This is actually another very interesting question. Do you think that a person can't have gay sex and still be totally straight? Do you think that enjoyment of the sex is what makes a person gay/str8 or is it something totally separate?

I personally believe that the reason many people get so confused about whether they're gay or straight is because we have so many different ideas of what gay/straight actually is. Discuss.

I will give you an example and you tell me what you think.

I have a 22 year old friend who is in the Marine Corp. I met him and his future wife when he was about 18, finisning up High School. We became good friends as we shared a common interest. This kid is the epitome of what one envisions when you think Marine, lean, athletic and chisled good looks. Me and him were hanging out at my house one night, drinking and watching movies when he discovered one of my straight porn movies and he wanted to watch it. so I put it on. Of course, one thing led to another and soon we found ourselves sitting on the couch next to each other stroking our rock hard cocks.
It took some coaxing, but eventualy, he let me touch his cock which of course turned into me stripping him naked and sucking his cock. Now I have a habit of playing with a guys ass when I am sucking dick, and this was no diferent. What surprised me was that he was receptive and I soon had a finger up in there, massaging his prostrate and bringing him to a volcanic eruption that overfilled my mouth with it's hot molten lava. We repeated this scenario on susequent visits and eventually worked our way up to me popping his virgin ass cherry. That started an ongoing "affair" of him coming to see me whenever he felt the "urge", he has never sucked my dick, he has never fucked me, he's is not into guys, even to the point of being a bit homophobic about it. He joined the Marines when he turned 19, is still enlisted and is now a full sergent, he married his high school sweetheart and they plan to have kids. To this day, he still visits me when he gets the "urge", were still good friends, still share a common interest. He has never done anything with another guy except me. I would love to be able to hold him and kiss him, but I respect his boundries and have to be content that he loves my cock in his ass, and that brings him off everytime, sometimes without touching himself.

So you tel me, is he straight, gay or bi?

-J

p.s- He considers himself totally straight, and thinks of me as being "a little bit bi"

 

[mikeyank]

I will give you an example and you tell me what you think.

I have a 22 year old friend who is in the Marine Corp. I met him and his future wife when he was about 18, finisning up High School. We became good friends as we shared a common interest. This kid is the epitome of what one envisions when you think Marine, lean, athletic and chisled good looks. Me and him were hanging out at my house one night, drinking and watching movies when he discovered one of my straight porn movies and he wanted to watch it. so I put it on. Of course, one thing led to another and soon we found ourselves sitting on the couch next to each other stroking our rock hard cocks.
It took some coaxing, but eventualy, he let me touch his cock which of course turned into me stripping him naked and sucking his cock. Now I have a habit of playing with a guys ass when I am sucking dick, and this was no diferent. What surprised me was that he was receptive and I soon had a finger up in there, massaging his prostrate and bringing him to a volcanic eruption that overfilled my mouth with it's hot molten lava. We repeated this scenario on susequent visits and eventually worked our way up to me popping his virgin ass cherry. That started an ongoing "affair" of him coming to see me whenever he felt the "urge", he has never sucked my dick, he has never fucked me, he's is not into guys, even to the point of being a bit homophobic about it. He joined the Marines when he turned 19, is still enlisted and is now a full sergent, he married his high school sweetheart and they plan to have kids. To this day, he still visits me when he gets the "urge", were still good friends, still share a common interest. He has never done anything with another guy except me. I would love to be able to hold him and kiss him, but I respect his boundries and have to be content that he loves my cock in his ass, and that brings him off everytime, sometimes without touching himself.

So you tell me, is he straight, gay or bi?

-J

p.s- He considers himself totally straight, and thinks of me as being "a little bit bi"

Of course, there is no "correct" answer to your question Jason. MissDeidra has a wonderful statement at the end of all of her posts,

"Labels are for filing. Labels are for clothing. Labels are not for people."

Each human being has their own degree of sexuality, and you cannot label it with a name. We are all just who we are and there is no need to give our sexuality a title.

 

[lesit78]

I will give you an example and you tell me what you think.

I have a 22 year old friend who is in the Marine Corp. I met him and his future wife when he was about 18, finisning up High School. We became good friends as we shared a common interest. This kid is the epitome of what one envisions when you think Marine, lean, athletic and chisled good looks. Me and him were hanging out at my house one night, drinking and watching movies when he discovered one of my straight porn movies and he wanted to watch it. so I put it on. Of course, one thing led to another and soon we found ourselves sitting on the couch next to each other stroking our rock hard cocks.
It took some coaxing, but eventualy, he let me touch his cock which of course turned into me stripping him naked and sucking his cock. Now I have a habit of playing with a guys ass when I am sucking dick, and this was no diferent. What surprised me was that he was receptive and I soon had a finger up in there, massaging his prostrate and bringing him to a volcanic eruption that overfilled my mouth with it's hot molten lava. We repeated this scenario on susequent visits and eventually worked our way up to me popping his virgin ass cherry. That started an ongoing "affair" of him coming to see me whenever he felt the "urge", he has never sucked my dick, he has never fucked me, he's is not into guys, even to the point of being a bit homophobic about it. He joined the Marines when he turned 19, is still enlisted and is now a full sergent, he married his high school sweetheart and they plan to have kids. To this day, he still visits me when he gets the "urge", were still good friends, still share a common interest. He has never done anything with another guy except me. I would love to be able to hold him and kiss him, but I respect his boundries and have to be content that he loves my cock in his ass, and that brings him off everytime, sometimes without touching himself.

So you tel me, is he straight, gay or bi?

-J

p.s- He considers himself totally straight, and thinks of me as being "a little bit bi"

OMG Jason that is SO HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

To answer your question though, I would say he is whatever he says he is. As one's sexuality can only be defined by the person theirself. In the case of a person's sexuality, it is not really an example of their actions speaking louder than their words, because only they know how they truly feel. So you just accept what they tell you, and be there for them if/when they need your friendship, love, and support. That's my opinion on it.

Abe

 

[lesit78]

Thank you so much for telling us about your life experience. I do find it both fascinating and erotic to read the story of a straight guy who discovers that sex with another dude can be pleasurable. The fact that your first gay encounter happened in a hotel room, while stoned after a Dead show also interests me, as one of my hottest sexual experiences ever came when I was 31 and my friend was 19, and he was a huge Deadhead. I was his first, and he tells me the only man to ever make love to him. He is married with two kids today.

By the way, the story of the spring breaker on the beach sounds hot too. But overall, I am so happy for you that you've found true love with your man, and that your ex-wife if so accepting of your current situation. Thanks for sharing.

That is beautiful Mike, thanks so much for sharing! I'd love to read about it in its entirety sometime, although I appreciate and respect that it's very private and personal.

Abe

 

[JohnnyG919]

So you tel me, is he straight, gay or bi?

Thanks for sharing that, Jason. Given the details that you've shared, I would say that if he says he's straight, he probably is. But he obviously enjoys the sex that the two of you have had or he wouldn't come back for more.

I've already spoken about Kinsey's 1-6 scale. I would say this guy is a prime example of someone who is probably inherently somewhere between a 1 and 2 on that scale, but has drifted a little more toward the 2-3 range because of his personal experiences with you. Were it not for the myths/taboos that say 'gay men are weak/effeminate' & 'straight men can't enjoy sex with other men and still be straight', he would probably be even more open to same sex experiences.

However, it's important to understand that that doesn't mean that he isn't predominantly attracted to women or that his wife isn't the person he wants to spend the rest of his life with. He has just also experienced m2m sex and has enjoyed it, so he isn't averse to experiencing it again. Some would call that straight. Others would call it 'bi'. He calls it straight and that's what really matters.

And just one more thing to think about: You ask if he's 'gay', 'straight' or 'bi'. Who says that those are the only three possibilities?

 

[balboa]

p.s- He considers himself totally straight, and thinks of me as being "a little bit bi"

Jason, thanks for sharing such a great and personal story. I've often wondered about the Kinsey scale and such and how it relates to a case such as yours. I too have had experiences with a few str8 guys. In your case, I believe that if not with you, your friend would probably never have had sex with a man...ever. In that respect, I really believe in right person, right time. My experiences with str8 guys was that they felt comfortable enough with me to at least try it. Makes me wonder how many other str8 guys just need the right guy to come along to at least wonder about it. While I don't entertain the notion that everyone is inherently bisexual, I think there are more who would try it than we realize.

 

[Rob_Ryder]

What a shame. I could eat you for dessert.

Does liking my ass getting licked mean I'm gay??? hahaha

 

[Rob_Ryder]

Rob, so glad for your take on this. I just re-joined College Dudes and even though I have a sizeable collection of the site's vids, I didn't have any of you. So I made it my business do D/L almost all of them. I just watched your flip/flop with Mick Hanson, and will watch the others.

But my question is, altho you're str8, can you equivocally say without a doubt that you DON'T enjoy the sex? If you do, what exactly DO you enjoy (bj, rimming, etc.)? I'm just trying to get into the mind of a g4p model. While money is certainly a motivator, is it also an aphrodisiac?

Awww let me know what you think when you seem all! The shower Bj scene with Trent Blade is a good one!

Although I am straight, I can't lie, I do enjoy a nice BJ and rim job if the guy knows how to do it haha! And I also don't mind the fucking, as long as I'm doing the fucking

 

[balboa]

Awww let me know what you think when you seem all! The shower Bj scene with Trent Blade is a good one!

Although I am straight, I can't lie, I do enjoy a nice BJ and rim job if the guy knows how to do it haha! And I also don't mind the fucking, as long as I'm doing the fucking

Just watched the scene! And you're right, this is hot, and I don't usually find oral-only vids interesting. I have Trent's vids, but never watched them, but I gotta watch 'em now. He has one of the most beautiful dicks I've seen, and I've watched plenty porn. I'm also surprised with how comfortable he seemed, since his scene with you was his first with a guy. Is he as cool a guy as he seems in the vid? Do tell! He is one hot dude, and you gave one hell of a bj!

 

[balboa]

Just read a line from Lucas Entertainment video description which I thought was great.

"10% of straight men have sex with other men. This does not make them gay...It makes them awesome!"

 

[BrokeStraightBoys]

Just read a line from Lucas Entertainment video description which I thought was great.

"10% of straight men have sex with other men. This does not make them gay...It makes them awesome!"

Haha I love it.

 

[Rob_Ryder]

Just watched the scene! And you're right, this is hot, and I don't usually find oral-only vids interesting. I have Trent's vids, but never watched them, but I gotta watch 'em now. He has one of the most beautiful dicks I've seen, and I've watched plenty porn. I'm also surprised with how comfortable he seemed, since his scene with you was his first with a guy. Is he as cool a guy as he seems in the vid? Do tell! He is one hot dude, and you gave one hell of a bj!

Trent was awesome . . . but not at first. When he did this scene, it was before he even knew he was gay yet and he was at the phase of trying to act super super straight. But I could tell that he liked it a little too much after doing the scene LOL . . After that he was a big teddy bear

 

[balboa]

Trent was awesome . . . but not at first. When he did this scene, it was before he even knew he was gay yet and he was at the phase of trying to act super super straight. But I could tell that he liked it a little too much after doing the scene LOL . . After that he was a big teddy bear

So, you're saying ultimately, he found out he's gay? Well, from the looks of his later scenes, he looked like he most definitely found gay sex enjoyable. And he seemed to be an awesome kisser.

 

[Rob_Ryder]

So, you're saying ultimately, he found out he's gay? Well, from the looks of his later scenes, he looked like he most definitely found gay sex enjoyable. And he seemed to be an awesome kisser.

I can't deny it, Trent is definitely a good kisser compared to some of the other guys I have been with. Most guys breath smell/taste like coffee and cigarettes, but Trent had a very clean mouth with some soft lips. So it was definitely a good change from the usual haha.

-Rob

 

[cumrag27]

Your being on the forum is such a big plus!

I can't deny it, Trent is definitely a good kisser compared to some of the other guys I have been with. Most guys breath smell/taste like coffee and cigarettes, but Trent had a very clean mouth with some soft lips. So it was definitely a good change from the usual haha.

-Rob

Dear Rob,

I so appreciate your participation on the forum. Your assessibility makes you that much more real. All too often, models are merely objectified because they are receiving payment for their performance and viewers know little about the person they are. You add the human dimension and realizing your likes and dislikes just makes you more appreciated for the person you are!. Thank you for your honesty!

Sincerely,


Stimpy

 

[mikeyank]

Dear Rob,

I so appreciate your participation on the forum. Your assessibility makes you that much more real. All too often, models are merely objectified because they are receiving payment for their performance and viewers know little about the person they are. You add the human dimension and realizing your likes and dislikes just makes you more appreciated for the person you are!. Thank you for your honesty!

Sincerely,


Stimpy

I agree 100% with Stimpy. Rob has been the most honest, and open model yet to grace us with his presence on the forum. It is so true that the participation of a model on our forum, "humanizes" them, and I no longer look at them as an object, but as a person.

We love you Rob.