Dear bithebi:
You couldn't have started this thread with a better post. It was logically presented and written cogently and concisely. It was long because you had a lot to say. And you said it well. (There are many posts on the forum longer than this one of yours where that is not the case - lol!!!)
The thoughts and observations you expressed are ones that many forumites have expressed over time just not in one place. And I think that gave all of us, including management, much to think about. And you elicited from management a post which was more responsive than any I can remember. Perhaps it was due to your being new to all this or that management is just tired of the same old harpies making the same old observations and suggestions. Whatever the case, you got them to respond and make certain commitments (as well as reveal certain things about the site and how it runs heretofore not known). Within a few months, the scenes currently being filmed before your email or ones already in the can will have been shown. After that, I suggest you keep your eyes open to see how management is following through on its commitments.
Thank you again, bithebi, for doing this public service not only for the membership, but also for the site itself. We all benefit if the site continues to improve.
Dear Stowe,
Thank you for your kind words; they are most appreciated.
As I mentioned in my post, although I often read others' posts, including yours, I typically do not jump into the fray because of time constraints among other reasons. However, over the years I have found many posts interesting, entertaining, and well thought out and written, including many of yours. There have been others that did not fall into any of those categories but that is no more than a reflection of society in general so why should this community be any different?
I am overwhelmed by the fact that my post generated so much traffic; I really didn't expect to see so many replies, and even though some of them have nothing to do with my topic, it is nonetheless very cool that it opened up such a strong dialogue.
I too was very encouraged by Bryce's response and look forward to seeing my suggestions adopted, to the extent feasible. I understand that the abrupt endings should end (pun intended), as, of the things I mentioned, that seems to be the easiest. Camera angles/blocked shots/taking into account less flattering body parts will require a little more effort but I believe also fairly easy to do.
As I mentioned earlier, I look forward to continuing to be a Broke Straight Boys member for many years to come and look forward to seeing what Broke Straight Boys has in store for us in the future. And, who knows, maybe I will even rejoin College Dudes if it goes back to using models that look more like undergrads instead of PhD. candidates. LOL
All the best,
BitheBi












