joninliv, the forum has members of varying degrees of sensitivity who may take offense at some of the postings. Zyl has always struck me as intelligent, classy, and sensitive, and he discriminately shares things he thinks are of value to others. The degree to which he shares intimate details of his personal life is a reflection of the trust and connection he has to many members. Apologies are a way of 'making whole,' addressing an offense that may have been experienced; those involved did just that, and their interactions will reflect the connection.
My work and volunteer schedules preclude me from participating to the level the senior members do, but I am also selective about reading the posts. If I don't care for the subject, tenor, or direction of the posts, I find something else of interest... it keeps me from unnecessarily engaging in debates that go nowhere because there is no 'right' position. (btw, I have enjoyed some of the posts you've shared
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