where is the proof that a loud bottom boy is faking it? look at the size of
Kodi's hips, his asshole stretched nearly half the width of his buttocks by the HUGE dicks he took. maybe he was just uninhibited and vocalized what he was feeling, phsyically and emotionally. all young men are taught to masturbate quietly,m cuz they normally start in a houseful of family usually at night--everyone is asleep and besides masturbating is...ahem...WRONG...so getting caught is humiliating. so we learn to withhold vocalization.
once out on my own, fuck it it was my apartment and I get let loose with a howl if I felt like it when I came. with other guys, I really reverted, growling snarling sometimes even biting the guy I was fucking. And I was a rough fuck. not at first--eased the other guy into it not only for his comfort but because the more enagaged he was, the better I made him feel, the rougher and harder I could get with him. I SO "get" Ben. I fucked every guy I was with starting out like they had never had a cock up their ass before. to so many bottom guys who are used to the top being a dick and just ramming it in, rarely giving them the chance to "catch up", this was a new experience for them, and I was rewarded for my initial efforts by a boy on my cock who I could do ANYTHING to cuz he was so dick drunk, his asshole so comfortable, warm, stretched out, he could just let loose.
I LOVE loud bottoms and tho I understand the sociological training of men to with-hold vocalizing sexual pleasure, assuming a bottom is faking his vocalizations just isn't right. A great part of pleasure I got from sex was the uninhibited vocalization--both mine, growling, etc., and his too. if my cock in him set off his prostate or adrenal response and he felt comfortable enough to vocalize that pleasure/pain/adrenalin response, then I, as a top, had done my job right. so just look again at how small
Kodi's entire receiving area was and the size of the cocks he took and wonder if u wouldn't have been hollering a bit too.
I mean, measuring his butt cheeks across at his taint--what? 5-6"s maybe. and he's taking a cock that has a 2 1/2" diameter? not too mention the relatively small length of his rectal/anal canal...he's a tiny guy! so his canals are, what, 4" or so long put together--and the guy topping, losing an inch or so to buttocks obstruction, whatever, is still getting 6" or so in there? that is a holler waiting to happen, especially if he LIKES it. cuz he'll push his own threshold to take as much more of that cock as he can get.
the asshole has three barriers--anal ring, entry rectal ring and exit rectal ring where it meets the colon and makes a 90 deg. left turn. there's a name for that organ but I forget. Tht organ is responsible for withholding chyme for nutrient removal and then releasing it into the rectal canal. that's why butt fucking isn't "unnatural". the enter rectal system is well designed to be fucked. the rctal canal is lined with mucoid covered MUSCLE and is designed to stretch and compress as it fills with chyme and then contracts to expel the waste thru the anal canal. the truly interesting part is that little organ at the top will close when the rectum is full. when a cock fills the space in the rectum, that little organ responds by closing cuz it thinks the rectum is full. I've fucked guys for 47 years and have got shit on my dick twice. the rectum is designed==muscle covered with low friction mucous-- to expel ALL the waste it has collected, cuz that waste is poisonous to the body. so it's very rare if the guy just took a regular shit right before sex that there is any waste left in the rectum. douching is nice, cuz it gets rid of any stragglers, but normally the human asshole is "wired" to switch from its biological function to its sexual function thru stimulation.
that little 90 deg organ at the top of the rectal canal closes cuz it thinks the rectum is full cuz it's full of cock. the mucoid membranes of the anal canal are designed to stretch and contract and are mucoid covered to make expelling waste more efficient, which is also perfect lubrication for taking cock. Yes, the anal canal is dry--probably to eliminate a moist area exposed to the air which would be ripe for infection to take hold. but it's also designed to open without pain at least 1-2 times a day for 80 or so years. it's a tough ring of muscle. expanding and contracting is its function. doesn't matter from which direction that expansion is instigated. the "pain" from opening that canal designed to open is purely psychological. it's unusual, at first, for the pressure to open to come from the outside. it doesn't "hurt", it's just an unusual feeling, so the mind fights back, consciously attempting to stop the expansion. this causes resistance, so the cock literally has to break thru that resistance and that is what "hurts". think about it--does it hurt to shit? normally, no. the anal ring is performing exactly the same function admitting a cock as it does expelling waste. so the "hurt" part must come from somewhere else and it is manufactured in the brain attempting to keep the hole closed.
same goes for entering the next barrier, the rectum. no way that can physically hurt, cuz the rectum opens and closes all the time. it's the resistance from the brain that attempts to keep that hole closed. we hear it all the time when they break in some guy--just relax. and it's the truth--without conscious resistance, a lubed cock will just slide right in there. HOWEVER, simple physics comes into play and a 2-3" diameter cock sliding into a narrow and short rectal canal in proportion to the guy being fucked is gonna set off some major reactions. that is a LOT of unusual stretching going on. some guys, it doesn't get so much of a reaction--perhaps their anal/rectal canals are more flexible, or they are so well trained in suppressing vocalizing sexual pleasure, it just doesn't seem like they're feeling that stretching.
Me? I always encouraged every guy I was with to let it out! howl, holler, scream, grunt, call me a mother fucker, cuz suppressing that is suppressing part of the enjoyment I want them to experience as their top. are there quiet bottoms who are enjoying themselves as much as a loud bottom? sure. but to be quiet as a disconnect from what is happening to u, like entering a fugue state in which YOU are no longer part of ur own body--that's just not psychologically healthy. A form of denial that can't possibly make having sex with a guy fun at all.
so--in conclusion--YAY LOUD BOTTOMS!!!! and growly, snarling somewhat violent big bear tops.
