louis33705
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This question comes up regularly on this site. Here's Zach's explanation of his feelings on this subject.
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louis33705
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From a personal standpoint, I'll share my story. Prior to meeting Lynn, my lover of 11 years, I had always been a bottom. It was not long into our relationship that one night I was straddled over him massaging his back. He quietly said, "It's ok if you put it in." I was surprised because I had assumed him to be strictly a "top." Our relationship evolved into a mutual versatile sexual one.
CRandallB
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I so enjoy the "wisdom" of CHILDREN. What's the longest relationship this VERY young man has ever had? A weekend? A month?
I am a Top. Period. I have bottomed a few times when I was younger just to understand what the guy I was fucking was experiencing. My first time, there was no pain at all. there were also no bells and whistles. I did it to see why the guys I fucked moaned and groaned and seemed to have such a great time with it. I felt virtually nothing. a little pressure, some friction, but after a few minutes I was soooo BORED with it, then it just got irritating. Found out after a more than a few tries that my prostate just isn't wired for it. At first, I was truly kinda disappointed--I truly wanted that feeling of lying back and getting those thrills from some other guy putting in the effort and then I was kinda jealous--still am, a bit--that they could have so much fun with it, get so much out of it, when, for me, it was annoying and a complete waste of time.
WHY put in all the effort and time to create an emotional bond with someone who would be mostly useless in the bedroom? I REALLY like u and could fall in love with you---then find out ur sexually incompatible? what then? broken hearts, wasted time...which could all be avoided with a simple question. But, 24 yr old wisdom comes to tell us all about it! ROFL! My last LTR was the best 14 years of my life and 7 years after we split, he is still my best friend. He was our bottom for those 14 years--BUT! When he wanted to get his Top on, we invited a third to join us. I LOVED watching my husband fuck another guy. My own private porno! He had a HUGE cock, so it was great to see him in action. commitment is in the head and heart, not the crotch, and sex is fun. love and sex are separate entities, but getting emotionally involved BEFORE u determine compatability is just a heartbreak waiting to happen. for those of us who are NOT versatile. If ur versatile, then sure, it doesn't matter. but if ur not versatile, damned str8 it's one of the first questions asked and answered cuz while ur wasting my time and emotion, six other guys that could have been perfect for me went by the wayside cuz u had all my attention then find out ur a non-versatile top too--now what? trade recipes? be content with bj's? or one of us gritting our teeth and taking one for the team instead of truly enjoying each other? again--come back and talk to us about ur life experience/wisdom when ur old enough TO HAVE HAD SOME! sheeeesh....
I am a Top. Period. I have bottomed a few times when I was younger just to understand what the guy I was fucking was experiencing. My first time, there was no pain at all. there were also no bells and whistles. I did it to see why the guys I fucked moaned and groaned and seemed to have such a great time with it. I felt virtually nothing. a little pressure, some friction, but after a few minutes I was soooo BORED with it, then it just got irritating. Found out after a more than a few tries that my prostate just isn't wired for it. At first, I was truly kinda disappointed--I truly wanted that feeling of lying back and getting those thrills from some other guy putting in the effort and then I was kinda jealous--still am, a bit--that they could have so much fun with it, get so much out of it, when, for me, it was annoying and a complete waste of time.
WHY put in all the effort and time to create an emotional bond with someone who would be mostly useless in the bedroom? I REALLY like u and could fall in love with you---then find out ur sexually incompatible? what then? broken hearts, wasted time...which could all be avoided with a simple question. But, 24 yr old wisdom comes to tell us all about it! ROFL! My last LTR was the best 14 years of my life and 7 years after we split, he is still my best friend. He was our bottom for those 14 years--BUT! When he wanted to get his Top on, we invited a third to join us. I LOVED watching my husband fuck another guy. My own private porno! He had a HUGE cock, so it was great to see him in action. commitment is in the head and heart, not the crotch, and sex is fun. love and sex are separate entities, but getting emotionally involved BEFORE u determine compatability is just a heartbreak waiting to happen. for those of us who are NOT versatile. If ur versatile, then sure, it doesn't matter. but if ur not versatile, damned str8 it's one of the first questions asked and answered cuz while ur wasting my time and emotion, six other guys that could have been perfect for me went by the wayside cuz u had all my attention then find out ur a non-versatile top too--now what? trade recipes? be content with bj's? or one of us gritting our teeth and taking one for the team instead of truly enjoying each other? again--come back and talk to us about ur life experience/wisdom when ur old enough TO HAVE HAD SOME! sheeeesh....
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Well, I am a woman, so I guess I was not supposed to answer here... But I have always been curious about this...
I have seen people asking gay couples before about their preference and I always found that a little offensive because as a straight person, people never asked me about my favorite position in bed.
Anyway I am enjoying reading the volunteer opinions here to fulfill my curiosity. CRandallB history is pretty interesting, I like his point of view about love sex and relationships!
I have seen people asking gay couples before about their preference and I always found that a little offensive because as a straight person, people never asked me about my favorite position in bed.
Anyway I am enjoying reading the volunteer opinions here to fulfill my curiosity. CRandallB history is pretty interesting, I like his point of view about love sex and relationships!
CRandallB
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yeah, that one always got me too: So, which one of u is the woman? ROFL! My answer, indicating my 6' 240 lb linebacker of a husband, was always--Neither, pal. No women involved--gay--get it?
stowe1
Ye Olde Curmudgeon
Although it's been a while since I used the phrase, but those of you who have been around for a while know me as a "big, 'ole bottom". And I am a size queen to boot. I like long fat dicks; but I'd rather have a 6" fat dick then a ten inch pencil.
johnny
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Love those BIG OLD BOTTOMS..
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Please Bartirah. Keep posting. No topic in here should be off limits to anyone. Regardless of whether they are straight, gay, male or female.
mikeyank
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I agree 100% with Tampa on that Bartirah! We are all equal here with the exact same right to say whatever we feel like saying. The more diverse opinions offered on models, scenes and life in general makes this forum all the better!
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