the 'EYES' have it! (for ME anyway!)

[SGVBOB]

Some of us, (NO OFFENSE MEANT), are 'size queens'-size matters, some are NOT ALL, (me), some are into physical appearance, some are not!
But what I would like to know, is, what is the FIRST thing that you notice in a guy that attracts you to him? If you are partnered, what was that special something that you found in him that made you think, "I could see myself being with him forever? (I hope this isn't being too personal).

Have fun with it

 

[peterh6308]

The first thing I noticed in my partner of 18 1/2 yrs was he had no shirt on, and was naturally toned (with an outy) and he had long brown hair. Now I notice teeth and hands? I don't know either!!!!

 

[Beth]

The first thing I noticed about Steve was just how goofy he was...like a geek. We were 18 and in our fraternity (PTK) he needed some help painting a banner; he started off by saying, "I have beer;" shit, I was hooked. I thought this kid is in need of some help; funny, I still call him "kid" all the time. I love that about him; yep, still the "nerd" of my life. We actually just had our 26th anniversary on Valentine's Day, but have been together 31 years. Here is a wedding photo...don't mind my mullet or that I was drunk at the time. You can tell, Steve is definitely the "intellect" of the pair...sooo cute!

 

[erikthbod]

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For me it would have to be his eyes.... Here are my favorite eyes I have ever seen. Click on it the attachment to see them. I would love to see them in person. He is an athlete and an 11 time world champion. His initials are KS. Anyone want to guess?

 

[Markymark]

OK so you older members know all about how Carl and I met online in a chat room for gay dads, but maybe I never told you how we met in person? We had been "chatting" for over a year and I begged him to come visit me in Ca., from New Mexico. Sent him a ticket, and arranged to pick him up at the new airport terminal in Sacramento. He had a picture of me, and I had a snapshot of him. (mine was very old!) When I finally saw him, he was definitely lost, so I walked towards him, and asked if I could help him. He handed me his carry on and pulled his phone from his pocket. He thanked me and explained he needed to look up a number, (I knew it would be mine). Then he asked me to remember the number . I said ok. He dialed the digits, forgot the area code, restarted and said "what was that number?" I repeated it, adding his name at the end. He said thanks, started dialing, paused, looked at me and said, "How do you know my name?" Then followed it with "Oh shit, it's you!" That's when I knew I was gonna marry that boy! I did. Eight years into our marriage, we moved back to Corrales, New Mexico, to be near his family and friends.

 

[elyot1]

I've had a lot of sexual partners and one real relationship and it began with him making me laugh. Somehow a sense of humor is a real turn on. If it weren't for the accident I think we'd still be together. I still feel him around me. Whenever I get full or myself or am sitting on the pity pot something funny always happens. I know he has something to do with those happenings.

 

[tampa24]

OK so you older members know all about how Carl and I met online in a chat room for gay dads, but maybe I never told you how we met in person? We had been "chatting" for over a year and I begged him to come visit me in Ca., from New Mexico. Sent him a ticket, and arranged to pick him up at the new airport terminal in Sacramento. He had a picture of me, and I had a snapshot of him. (mine was very old!) When I finally saw him, he was definitely lost, so I walked towards him, and asked if I could help him. He handed me his carry on and pulled his phone from his pocket. He thanked me and explained he needed to look up a number, (I knew it would be mine). Then he asked me to remember the number . I said ok. He dialed the digits, forgot the area code, restarted and said "what was that number?" I repeated it, adding his name at the end. He said thanks, started dialing, paused, looked at me and said, "How do you know my name?" Then followed it with "Oh shit, it's you!" That's when I knew I was gonna marry that boy! I did. Eight years into our marriage, we moved back to Corrales, New Mexico, to be near his family and friends.

Great Story M&M! I do remember it from a long time ago. I'm always happy to hear it again though. It's beautiful.

 

[tampa24]

I've had a lot of sexual partners and one real relationship and it began with him making me laugh. Somehow a sense of humor is a real turn on. If it weren't for the accident I think we'd still be together. I still feel him around me. Whenever I get full or myself or am sitting on the pity pot something funny always happens. I know he has something to do with those happenings.

I'm so sorry you lost him Elyot.

But at least you know that he's still around looking over you. I'm sure that offers you some comfort.

 

[tampa24]

We actually just had our 26th anniversary on Valentine's Day, but have been together 31 years. Here is a wedding photo...don't mind my mullet or that I was drunk at the time. You can tell, Steve is definitely the "intellect" of the pair...sooo cute!

It's a wonderful picture Beth. Thank you for sharing it with us.

 

[betudidntknow]

Some of us, (NO OFFENSE MEANT), are 'size queens'-size matters, some are NOT ALL, (me), some are into physical appearance, some are not!
But what I would like to know, is, what is the FIRST thing that you notice in a guy that attracts you to him? If you are partnered, what was that special something that you found in him that made you think, "I could see myself being with him forever? (I hope this isn't being too personal).

Have fun with it

I met my buddy when he was 19. (41 now). Brown hair and blue eyes! That contrast of dark hair making his "devilish" blue eyes stand out was mesmerizing to me! Even his smile is "devilish." Both still give me that....."damn he's hot" vibe to this day!

Love the picture of "Beth & Steve"!

 

[Beth]

I met my buddy when he was 19. (41 now). Brown hair and blue eyes! That contrast of dark hair making his "devilish" blue eyes stand out was mesmerizing to me! Even his smile is "devilish." Both still give me that....."damn he's hot" vibe to this day!

Love the picture of "Beth & Steve"!

Yep, good "buddies" do tend to stick around and keep stoking that fire!