Straight Men and Gay Sex.

[betudidntknow]

I am a gay man and have been with the same Straight male for sex for the past 20 years. We met through a mutual friend when I was 31 and he was 19. (My best friend from high school and his neighbor.) He had some "gay for pay" experiences up to that point but only a couple of times. It seems that he had experimented with and apparently enjoyed an occasional pleasure in his butt. Over the years, he and I would get together for a "booty call" either I would call him or he would call me. This went on for years. I don't bottom. He doesn't kiss. He has given head once or twice to me. We now essentially live in the same house and sleep in the same bed. We continue to have sex a couple times a month. I like to initiate it. Over the years I have learned how to get him turned on and then do him. Sometimes, he will just say "Do me". There are times when you can tell he is really into the anal and times when it's just to please me.

When I watch episodes of Broke Straight Boys, I can tell when the guys who are bottoming might be into it and when they are just doing it for the scene. Such has been the case with Skyler in the last few times he's bottomed. I do believe that a straight guy can, to quote Jason Matthews "Gay sex is an acquired taste." This is why I enjoy this site mostly, but other sites that feature Straight guys having gay sex as well. It doesn't mean that they want it all of the time. They can be turned on enough that the pleasure can be found referring to bottoming. Not all aspects of gay sex works with all straight guys. Just thought I would share that. Maybe someone else has a similar experience with a straight friend or partner.

 

[nickkk1881]

Interesting observations...thanks for sharing that.

 

[andy]

Hi Bet.. so he's been your bottom for years, you live together and share a bed, he loves anal, and he considers himself straight? Have you ever asked him what would turn him gay? They're just labels anyways... so if it works for you guys, keep going

 

[joeychuck2]

You are lucky guys. Sex or no sex I'll bet you love each other.

 

[Beth]

Jinx, a forumite says it best, "Labels are for clothes, not people." I would ask you though Bet, do you both consider yourselves happy? To me, that's what really matters.

 

[peterh6308]

Happiness is what matters BET, so if you guys have that nothing else really matters.

 

[erikthbod]

I had a roomate/boyfriend for a couple of years. He was a minor league baseball player. He was very good looking, built like the famous brick shit house and he was hung like a horse. We had great sex. He would always bottom, never ever topped. He said "if he did that it would make him gay." I never understood that statement.

 

[andy]

You are lucky guys. Sex or no sex I'll bet you love each other.

I love this answer JC2

 

[andy]

He would always bottom, never ever topped. He said "if he did that it would make him gay." I never understood that statement.

And then you hear the exact opposite (won't bottom cos it makes me gay). Is it all just prejudice?

 

[betudidntknow]

You are lucky guys. Sex or no sex I'll bet you love each other.

And it took me almost 2 years of trying to make sense of it all. One day I just finally stopped trying to "Label" everything and realized that I do just love my buddy "sex or no sex"... and he's still here..so I guess that says it all!

 

[silvercamel]

I am a gay man and have been with the same Straight male for sex for the past 20 years. We met through a mutual friend when I was 31 and he was 19. (My best friend from high school and his neighbor.) He had some "gay for pay" experiences up to that point but only a couple of times. It seems that he had experimented with and apparently enjoyed an occasional pleasure in his butt. Over the years, he and I would get together for a "booty call" either I would call him or he would call me. This went on for years. I don't bottom. He doesn't kiss. He has given head once or twice to me. We now essentially live in the same house and sleep in the same bed. We continue to have sex a couple times a month. I like to initiate it. Over the years I have learned how to get him turned on and then do him. Sometimes, he will just say "Do me". There are times when you can tell he is really into the anal and times when it's just to please me.

When I watch episodes of Broke Straight Boys, I can tell when the guys who are bottoming might be into it and when they are just doing it for the scene. Such has been the case with Skyler in the last few times he's bottomed. I do believe that a straight guy can, to quote Jason Matthews "Gay sex is an acquired taste." This is why I enjoy this site mostly, but other sites that feature Straight guys having gay sex as well. It doesn't mean that they want it all of the time. They can be turned on enough that the pleasure can be found referring to bottoming. Not all aspects of gay sex works with all straight guys. Just thought I would share that. Maybe someone else has a similar experience with a straight friend or partner.

I think this is very insightful information and gives us a better understanding of the range of experiences that straight men have on Broke Straight Boys