I'm sure most won't agree with me, but what happens if Phil (sorry to put you in 3rd person) goes on set, and folks don't get what they're looking for? It could ruin the imagination. My feeling also is that he should be able to do what he's comfortable with, just around his friends ... not be on set because everyone else wants him to.
That's a very good point. And it happens all the time, People build up so much pressure and thinking something is so great but when it comes down to it, whatever they thought was gonna be so great because of what they tell themselves in their mind and isn't what they expected..they are disappointed.
But you know, They disappointed themselves.
Now theoretically speaking, If members here have their collected fantasies about me and let their imagination take over their thoughts, and I did appear on the Futon and I didn't fulfill those fantasies or I let any of them down.. I would simply just have to say Sorry, stay tuned for next week or watch a different model, because when it comes down to it, its not about living up to anyones fantasies here, Its all about that money, and whether you like the episode or not, the models are still getting paid.
Now its funny you mention this because I still do have some insecurities about my body, so its a very good chance that If i did ever decide to model or try this out, that I would disappoint and let a few down. But with the few I let down, I guarantee their would be many many more pleased.
P.S - You guys that say, When you and your boyfriend or whoever Kiss, it brings out the passion and intimacy in the act.. That's all fine and dandy, for you! Kissing brings out the Intimacy and Passion and Lust because you two have those intimate feelings for each other and Kissing is so intimate it heats your body up.
Its not the same with two straight guys that don't share those intimate feelings for each other. It's awkward and weird and don't feel right. You can't force those great feelings, its just gotta be in the Chemistry in the air, at the right place and at the right time.
Just like I mentioned in the Tyler - Dustin episode. These two are perfect. They know who they are, what they want and their restrictions. The said they will think about it, go for it if its right, but don't hold them to it. And they found the right time and their were in the right place and you get the sense of Passion and Intimacy when you watch them kiss because of the little things like Tyler grabbing onto Dustin's Body, and the position that they were in. They just had very good Chemistry flowing, and they made it work. These two are amazing. Bravo!