Question to Bottoms

[Coach2012]

I just read an interview with power bottom Kurt Wild. He said the key to bottoming is keeping hard. He says the prostate stimultion causes more real pleasure mainly when starting with an erection.

For those with experience, is Kurt Wild right?

 

[joninliverton]

Not necessarily. I've spoken to loads of people about keeping hard when getting fucked and the guys I speak to is that very little people do. My own situation is that I can keep hard if I'm not in pain - once I'm in pain then that's it.

 

[peterh6308]

I usually am hard because of the foreplay, but once he enters I go limp until I'm loosened up and it starts to feel great. Then I'm hard pretty much the whole time.

 

[DrabBoiz]

Dayum, it's been so long I can't remember.

 

[RSand88]

I'll feel really good but don't necessarily get hard.

 

[tangogent]

As a top, I still remember when I was with Tim, who was
able to come as I fucked him without either of us touching
his dick.

Fantastic, but, of course we were in love at the time.

TG
x

 

[scorpio]

Dayum, it's been so long I can't remember.

How come? You're fricking hot

 

[tampa24]

You're fricking hot

Right back atcha Scorpio! xo

 

[Huh?]

I'm with jon on this. Pain isn't really conducive to a hard on.

This is the reason why I have been so vocal in railing against "power tops" who seem to have no concern for the bottom having any pleasure, and why I would like all tops to bottom occasionally so they understand how it feels.

 

[joninliverton]

I'm with jon on this. Pain isn't really conducive to a hard on.

This is the reason why I have been so vocal in railing against "power tops" who seem to have no concern for the bottom having any pleasure, and why I would like all tops to bottom occasionally so they understand how it feels.

ThanQ but I'm not an advocate of forcing a top to bottom. As I said before it's up to them and if it hurts them then it will come across in the video and will turn me off too.

 

[tangogent]

Let me share more of my perversity with
my dearest Forumites.

As a top, I'm quite content to fuck a limp-dicked
partner. I like to think he's completely forgotten
he's got a dick and he's totally focussed on his
a-hole, where I am giving him pleasure.

It's another pleasant flavour of sex when
I fuck someone who's hard as a bone throughout.
But my services are equally available to those lovely
chaps who don't experiencing bottoming that way,
and whose dicks shrink and go soft. In that case, this
philosophy applies: I'll be the stiff-dick here, thank-
you-very-much; you stay just as you are, young man.
I'd like to reassure any bottoms who felt they needed
to be stiff during The Act that you don't, certainly
from my point-of-view. Just be whatever kind of
bottom God intended you to be and I will take and
give pleasure.

I send love to all you bottoms out there!

TG
x

 

[mikeyank]

Let me share more of my perversity with
my dearest Forumites.

As a top, I'm quite content to fuck a limp-dicked
partner. I like to think he's completely forgotten
he's got a dick and he's totally focussed on his
a-hole, where I am giving him pleasure.

It's another pleasant flavour of sex when
I fuck someone who's hard as a bone throughout.
But my services are equally available to those lovely
chaps who don't experiencing bottoming that way,
and whose dicks shrink and go soft. In that case, this
philosophy applies: I'll be the stiff-dick here, thank-
you-very-much; you stay just as you are, young man.
I'd like to reassure any bottoms who felt they needed
to be stiff during The Act that you don't, certainly
from my point-of-view. Just be whatever kind of
bottom God intended you to be and I will take and
give pleasure.

I send love to all you bottoms out there!

TG
x

Again TG, thank you for your perspective as a top. I would also like to point out that there is a segment of the gay population that does not engage in anal sex, but the same principal applies.

I am proud to be a cocksucker, and when I was younger, I would be jerking off while pleasuring my man, but I have come to realize that when I find a man who loves the pleasure that my mouth can bring him, my own cock is not an issue during that act. And I can get as excited as the top is when he reaches his orgasm. I feel pleasure and satisfaction from getting my man off.

When I am fortunate enough to find a totally hot guy, who appreciates the loving attention that I give him, then his orgasm becomes mine, and I can get my own physical pleasure reliving his orgasm in my mind, as I attain my own orgasm.

TG, I sure love the subjects that you discuss here.

 

[ChristopherRobin]

Yes.

 

[peterh6308]

Well lets see. I can honestly say William is the only one that I "made love" with where we both were there to love and please each other. Since then I'm not interested in "making love" to anyone but there to get fucked and maybe a little conversation before and after. So although I love the passionate scenes on here and vote them high, I prefer the scenes where there is a submissive bottom and a I don't give a shit top. So I continue to be a faithful member of Broke Straight Boys because both types of scenes are filmed and aired.

 

[tangogent]

Peter, Was the lucky William a Broke Straight Boys model or someone in your personal life,
if i may ask you.

Dear Mike, I thrive with your encouragement, so--watch out! I also really
enjoyed your voicing the cock-sucker's perspective.

Of course, such talk has value because it's a bit sexy all on its own, but
beyond that, the candour of the discourse on the Forum relieves the isolation
that can result from sharing one's sexual behaviour with [a] partner but
not having someone with whom one can share one's sexual thoughts.

More, more, more (to quote Andrea True Connection of disco days fame).

TG
x

 

[DrabBoiz]

All I know is I hate to watch a dude getting fucked who is not enjoying it. Brings to mind a certain video with Brock getting fucked, over at ASG. He grimaced and moaned and groaned so much; it just wasn't sexy. On the other hand, I love watching a bottom with a rock-hard dick.

 

[BenBen]

You know you can't always tell from the moans and groans or limp dick if a bottom is enjoying it or hating it. I'm a very noisy bottom and even if it hurts a little I enjoy the whole experience. I rarely get hard when I'm getting fucked but I have had an orgasm. Before I start with anyone I make sure they understand once they start they should not stop even if it sounds like I'm in pain. The noises are just something I can't control. When I rim a guy or blow a guy I am always rock hard. I'm a top in life but love to be a bottom bitch in the bedroom.

Tears don't always mean pain either sometimes the feelings are so intense that it just happens. Sometimes I think the bottom could be acting that he's in pain, because when I see a big hard dick slide right in and the bottom doesn't go soft or doesn't have trouble cumming while being fucked I'm guessing he's enjoying it, no matter what his face looks like.

I have seen a few videos where it was really obvious the bottom was not into it all and was in pain, I usually stop watching then. I only like watching someone in pain if it turns them on.

 

[joninliverton]

Let me share more of my perversity with
my dearest Forumites.

As a top, I'm quite content to fuck a limp-dicked
partner. I like to think he's completely forgotten
he's got a dick and he's totally focussed on his
a-hole, where I am giving him pleasure.

It's another pleasant flavour of sex when
I fuck someone who's hard as a bone throughout.
But my services are equally available to those lovely
chaps who don't experiencing bottoming that way,
and whose dicks shrink and go soft. In that case, this
philosophy applies: I'll be the stiff-dick here, thank-
you-very-much; you stay just as you are, young man.
I'd like to reassure any bottoms who felt they needed
to be stiff during The Act that you don't, certainly
from my point-of-view. Just be whatever kind of
bottom God intended you to be and I will take and
give pleasure.

I send love to all you bottoms out there!

TG
x

TG - I started off bottoming and at the beginning, possibly due to the pain factor with some of my bigger partners, my hardon was taken away. I thought there was something wrong with me, so I asked other gay guys around my age and most of the said the same. As I became more loose (not in a sluttish way lol), the pain wasn't as bad and I started enjoying the pleasure of being a bottom but still did not get an erection whilst being fucked - again some of my friends said the same. Each and everyone of us reacts different to the various parts of sex and I personally get off after I've been fucked with some very intensive and deep kissing.

I think people who do not engage in anal but watch porn, tend to think that we should all be able to maintain an erection and cum whilst being fucked. This is not so and it's good that we're all different