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[mikeyank]

Into my 62nd yr, I too am still a big time 'oozer', at times embarassingly so - don't even need to be hard! Have had to on occasion go to the can and pad my undies with toilet paper so as not to announce my horniness to all and sundry. So not sure that it would flatter a partner. Great tho, I never need lube and most often have enough for another. I get comments that range from "wow, don't come, just keep leaking" (while being given a BJ) to "hey man, will u stop cumming, I'm going to choke". Luv a fellow ozzer, but they do seem to be rare. I find it such a turn on!

When you mention being an "oozer" without even having to be hard, you remind me of an older gentleman that I met in Fort Lauderdale several years ago, and at a clothing optional gay motel where I was staying. I made friends with him and his partner, and was laying on the lounge chair by the pool one day, next to him, and he was naked, with sunscreen all around his more sensitive areas.

We started talking about sexual experiences, and soon he told me how this kind of talk got him excited, and I looked over and his soft but nice sized cock was dripping with precum. He touched it and played with it in his fingers. I eventually realized, when he told me that he and his partner had a rule that it was okay to "fool around" while on vacation, that he was trying to get me to bring him back to my motel room. I explained that I'm into having sex with young guys, not guys my age or older, but it was a memorable day watching the stream of precum leaking out of his soft but lengthy cock.

 

[gregorick]

Mike, your Fort Lauderdale experience struck me. "Coming of age" during the early 60's in a small town in Newfoundland certainly limited my exploration of 'self'. At 21 I'd done what was expected of me: graduated BA, B Ed, and married the only girl I had messed 'round with, had 2 children, maintained a 'stable' marriage for 30+ yrs, built an enviable career in education, and explored my real 'self' very covertly. Then, I preferred men my own age but it was far riskier. Hence, I 'allowed' myself to be seduced by men older than I - as most were also into 'stable' relationships, there was far less risk. (Wow, 'stable' is an interesting pun in this context.) As I got older, I drifted towards younger men - they seemed to be drawn to me. Nonetheless, I continued to respect the advances of an older man - I continue to visit a man who is now in his early 90's, share current porn with him (Broke Straight Boys is 1 of his favourites) and make sure I leave him with a very satisfied smile.

Mike, it was this comment of yours that struck accord: "I explained that I'm into having sex with young guys, not guys my age or older". I too prefer younger men. However, in one way or another, I now either 'pay' for them or feel I am preying upon them. Too bad that some of us 'older guys' can't, at least occasionally, bite the bullet, sit together, share 'twink porn', lay together and make sure we part with satisfied smiles on our faces. I had a Fort Lauderdale experience 2 yrs ago at a small, intimate clothing optional gay resort in Palm Springs. I had 2 gorgeous, enviable hung young men (19 & 21, French speaking from Quebec) as my companions for the 10 day period. Yes, I purchased their travel, looked after all expensess. I was the envy of other resort guests, particularly 2 older gentleman (64 & 72), there separately and alone. The 2 boys and I empathized with their loneliness and yearning. On the 5th nite, we took them to dinner with us and back to our suite afterwards. Well, not only did the gents leave 'well drained' and with smiles on their faces, they left together, remained together for the remainder of their stay, and now travel and vacation together.

This "I'm not into men my own age or older" catches up with us. Then, we begin to experience the loneliness and yearning of the older gents I met in Palm Springs.

 

[mikeyank]

Mike, your Fort Lauderdale experience struck me. "Coming of age" during the early 60's in a small town in Newfoundland certainly limited my exploration of 'self'. At 21 I'd done what was expected of me: graduated BA, B Ed, and married the only girl I had messed 'round with, had 2 children, maintained a 'stable' marriage for 30+ yrs, built an enviable career in education, and explored my real 'self' very covertly. Then, I preferred men my own age but it was far riskier. Hence, I 'allowed' myself to be seduced by men older than I - as most were also into 'stable' relationships, there was far less risk. (Wow, 'stable' is an interesting pun in this context.) As I got older, I drifted towards younger men - they seemed to be drawn to me. Nonetheless, I continued to respect the advances of an older man - I continue to visit a man who is now in his early 90's, share current porn with him (Broke Straight Boys is 1 of his favourites) and make sure I leave him with a very satisfied smile.

Mike, it was this comment of yours that struck accord: "I explained that I'm into having sex with young guys, not guys my age or older". I too prefer younger men. However, in one way or another, I now either 'pay' for them or feel I am preying upon them. Too bad that some of us 'older guys' can't, at least occasionally, bite the bullet, sit together, share 'twink porn', lay together and make sure we part with satisfied smiles on our faces. I had a Fort Lauderdale experience 2 yrs ago at a small, intimate clothing optional gay resort in Palm Springs. I had 2 gorgeous, enviable hung young men (19 & 21, French speaking from Quebec) as my companions for the 10 day period. Yes, I purchased their travel, looked after all expensess. I was the envy of other resort guests, particularly 2 older gentleman (64 & 72), there separately and alone. The 2 boys and I empathized with their loneliness and yearning. On the 5th nite, we took them to dinner with us and back to our suite afterwards. Well, not only did the gents leave 'well drained' and with smiles on their faces, they left together, remained together for the remainder of their stay, and now travel and vacation together.

This "I'm not into men my own age or older" catches up with us. Then, we begin to experience the loneliness and yearning of the older gents I met in Palm Springs.

Gregorick, That is a wonderful story that you have told about your Palm Springs experience, and you are completely correct that:

"This "I'm not into men my own age or older" catches up with us. Then, we begin to experience the loneliness and yearning of the older gents I met in Palm Springs."

I'm totally aware of this, and actually just made the point myself that I was showing age discrimination, to this kind and actually quite handsome "older gent", (on the controversial "Ugly Guys" thread on the other board).

I absolutely recognize that what you are saying is accurate and I also recognize the consequences of having this mind set. Thank you for your words of wisdom.