Tampa24 - Back in 1982 I spent 4 months in Bowling Green and I know what you mean about homophobia. It was rampant. I got a lecture once because I was wearing a pink Polo shirt. I was told not to do that because people might think I was a "fag." Geez. I hope it has changed.
That's the kind of crap I had to put up with as a kid and teenager. It was like you weren't allowed to have a bedspread that wasn't black, brown or navy blue. If you dared to have any brighter, more cheerful colors anywhere in your room then people might "get the wrong idea." Can't have that, can we? It was stifling.