Few dates in one's life are so seared in one's brain, that when heard much later in life, brings back a flood of memories of what happened on that date, and exactly where I was and what I was doing when I heard the news of what had just taken place. In my lifetime there are three such dates, excluding the dates when I lost my parents and my first wife.
The first and perhaps the most traumatic, was November 22, 1963, when our president was assassinated. Traumatic, perhaps, because of my youth and was the first time I had ever experienced such a catastrophic event with worldwide implications. The senseless murder left the world in total grief.
I was a sophomore in high school, and had just started French class, my last class of the day, when the principal announced over the intercom that President Kennedy had been shot and was being rushed to a hospital. I spent most of my time in that class, staring out the window, praying for him, and assuring myself that everything would be fine. People get shot all of the time, I thought, and he would probably have his arm in a cast for awhile, but he would recover. That seemed to be the longest hour of my young life up to that point.
After the bell rang to end that class, everyone filed out into the hall, all ready to go home. I noticed some of the girls crying and someone told me the president had died. I didn't believe it. It just couldn't be true, as my mind was still seeing him with a cast on his arm. I didn't believe it UNTIL I got home and found my mother sitting in front of the TV, her eyes red and swollen from crying. From Friday afternoon through the following Monday, we sat mostly in front of our black and white TV, numb with grief, watching the events happening live honoring the memory of our young president.
The second date etched in my memory is November 14, 1970, when the plane carrying our Marshall University football team, coaches, and prominent fans, crashed in the foothills of the Appalachian Mountains, just short of the runway to Tri-State Airport, killing all 75 souls aboard. Unimaginable grief hung over this area for quite some time.
And, of course, the third date is September 11, 2001, when our country was attacked by terrorists, killing nearly 3,000 innocent people in New York City, Washington, D.C., and Shanksville, Pennsylvania.
On first date, November 22, 1963, only one man lost his life, but our country and the entire world lost a great leader.