Kissing

[JohnnyG919]

I just don't get it. I would very much like CJ to elaborate a little bit more on his aversion to kissing and I'd like to hear from some other straight models as well. Forgive me, but I'm going to need to be a little blunt here.

I can totally understand that, as 'straight boys,' they're not 'turned on' by kissing other guys. I can even understand that it might seem too intimate - that they can 'disconnect' from the sex part but the kissing is more like affection. Okay, I could kinda buy that - I think.

But CJ (in the most recent episode) says that he won't kiss because guys don't turn him on. Now that just doesn't make sense to me. He can get fucked and he can suck dick, but a little kissing isn't worth the money?

If the situation were reversed and I had to be in a scene with a girl, I know damned well that, if I could get through licking her pussy without gagging or puking, I could certainly handle kissing her. I wouldn't be 'turned on' in the slightest, but I would welcome doing something so easy. After all, a little Scope works wonders. But you could pour all the Scope in the world on her pussy and it wouldn't make that thing any better. If I could go down there, kissing would be a breeze!

So what's the real hangup here? I haven't heard a single convincing reason so far. Clue me in to the 'straight boy logic.' I'm young. I can learn.

Johnny

 

[mikeyank]

You raise a very interesting point Johnny, although you are not the first to notice this, either on this forum or elsewhere too. I don't have the phycological reasons for this phenomenon, but kissing very often is perceived as "going too far", by guys who live a straight lifestyle and only engage in acts of gay sex, on the "down low".

I knew a 20 year old white Irish kid who lived in a real working class neighborhood of Queens, New York, on the outskirts of some very tough urban neighborhoods. So this was a tough kid who liked to drink and do drugs and get into fights too. Well, I met him on a telephone "chat line" back in the early 1980's, before the Internet was as popular as it is today. This kid dated girls, and hung out in the bars in his hood, but when I'd pick him up and bring him back to my apartment to suck his dick, he also wanted to suck me and he loved rimming me. He couldn't get enough of eating out my ass, and he told me that he loves eating pussy and ass.

But on a different occasion, when I tried to kiss him during sex, he told me that kissing was too intimate. So go figure straight boys. It's the old saying, Can't live with them, can't live without them.

 

[aquarius]

Mike's very right, Johnny. I even know lots of gay men who won't kiss. When I was a teen I had this straight friend I used to fool around with and there wasn't much we didn't do. Not once did anything ever 'turn his stomach' so to speak until I finally talked him into trying kissing. He barfed. For a long time I thought CJ might be secretly gay - you a lot of them are - but his response to kissing seemed so real, it kind of convinced me he might really be straight. He sure does like getting fucked though.

 

[SayWhat]

I personally don't like kissing random people on the lips either. Of course, I was pretty much raised on Pretty Woman, so I'm sure that has something to do with it haha

It may even be a little more emotional than they're letting on (Wait... Straight guys have feelings?!?!?) They're essentially selling their body to people they barely know, so there's very little they can physically give to make someone they're in love with more special than their "co-workers". I hope that makes sense...

 

[parisnoyd]

$ does amazing things........... The no kissing thing is laughable to me. Puhleeze! This is the only site I subscrbe to where "straight" guys don't kiss. GMAFB!

 

[silvercamel]

I just don't get it. I would very much like CJ to elaborate a little bit more on his aversion to kissing and I'd like to hear from some other straight models as well. Forgive me, but I'm going to need to be a little blunt here.

I can totally understand that, as 'straight boys,' they're not 'turned on' by kissing other guys. I can even understand that it might seem too intimate - that they can 'disconnect' from the sex part but the kissing is more like affection. Okay, I could kinda buy that - I think.

But CJ (in the most recent episode) says that he won't kiss because guys don't turn him on. Now that just doesn't make sense to me. He can get fucked and he can suck dick, but a little kissing isn't worth the money?

If the situation were reversed and I had to be in a scene with a girl, I know damned well that, if I could get through licking her pussy without gagging or puking, I could certainly handle kissing her. I wouldn't be 'turned on' in the slightest, but I would welcome doing something so easy. After all, a little Scope works wonders. But you could pour all the Scope in the world on her pussy and it wouldn't make that thing any better. If I could go down there, kissing would be a breeze!

So what's the real hangup here? I haven't heard a single convincing reason so far. Clue me in to the 'straight boy logic.' I'm young. I can learn.

Johnny

I don't think it's a straight thing particularly...I've known too many gay guys who won't kiss...just suck me off or just fuck me, but for god sake don't kiss me....as for me, I think it is one of the most intimate things two people can do, yes, more than sucking or fucking - which both can be depersonalized pretty easily.

 

[angelone]

This is a very complicated topic. Kissing may be more a matter of personal perference rather than anything else. This is true with everything else that goes on between two people sexually. I can kiss a woman but I really perfer not to - I rather not have to do anything sexual with a woman. And though I'm into men, I don't rim but I don't mind being rimmed. And the list goes on and on and on...

 

[amcovtime]

I understand what you are saying. I have sometimes feel like, well dang you can suck a dick but you cant kiss? But I have known a lot of men that will suck, fuck eat ass, but not kiss. It annoys me, but it is up to that person. It happens a lot more in the Black communities. We seem to have an aversion to kissing...Well not me
I personally didnt like the way CJ was just blunt and kinda, hummm...not rude, mean (?). I am not sure how to put it. But either way his personality is dry and has always been dry.

 

[joeychuck2]

Its an American thing. Go to other countries and men kiss all the time as part of everyday living. Maybe not put a tongue in mouths but kissing even on the lips is usual. Here in any football game a guy hugs or taps an ass but kissing is not comfortable.

 

[lpdude86]

Ok heres my 2 cents!
As a guy who has done nothing sexual with a guy, but enjoys watching guys do sexual things together I can see both sides of the kissing controversy.
The only thing I have ever done sexually with a guy is jerk off in the same room late at night when my roomate is sleeping. at least I think he is. I am in a college dorm and this ismy first experience sharing a room with anyone.
With that being said, I have attended some parties where games are played and the guys try to get girls to do things together and the girls try to get get guys to do things together. I was at a party were the guys all wanted to see these really two hot girls kiss/make out they agreed to do if 2 guys of the girls choosing would do it. After lengthy disussion and a few adult beverages the 2 "chosen" guys agreed and the girls had them come to the center of the room take off their shirts and kiss on the the lips and rub each others chests for several minutes. I do admit I found it HOT! Theother guys standing around at first were kind of giggling but I know some off them found it arousing, you could tell by their facial expressions and body movement (did I mention I am a Psych major).
The reason I am telling this is because I think straight guys will kiss if their is enough pressure/ reward.
I am not a kisser of females or males, I just am not a person that does that. I am also not much of a hugger or handshaker. I just don't touch people.
I went to my roomates family home with him over a recent break, and I was shocked at how open his family is. They are real touchers and huggers and kissers. I see why he is so friendly and well liked, it is the way he was raised. I had never met or even spoke to his family and when we walked in his mom hugged and kissed me like I was her family. I was really shocked when my roomate walked up to his dad and kissed him. I had never seen that before.
So what I am trying to say is that stright guys do kiss, it depends on the situation. In the scenes money could be the possible reward. I think where I would be cool to see if they would taste each others cum rather than kiss. I would make them an offer and see wich they would choose. But thats just me

 

[joninliverton]

Its an American thing. Go to other countries and men kiss all the time as part of everyday living. Maybe not put a tongue in mouths but kissing even on the lips is usual. Here in any football game a guy hugs or taps an ass but kissing is not comfortable.

Joey I think youve hit the nail on the head there. I have known friends who have been to America from England and have gone all the way and even bareback with guys they've met. However, kissing was a no no. How can you allow someone to cum up ur ass but then say that kissing is too intimate.

Horses for courses I guess.

 

[JohnnyG919]

Thanks for the replies, guys. I understand what you're saying, but I'd really like to hear from the straight guys too. No disrespect to any of you, but it would be nice to hear it 'from the horses mouth' so to speak.

I do understand the intimacy thing. For some guys, kissing is more intimate. It is for me as well. I remember as a teenager, having sex for the first time, I wouldn't kiss a guy that I was with - not because it wierded me out - but because I was just experimenting at that point and I didn't want him to get the idea that I had feelings for him (I didn't.)

But it's a little different when it's for pay. Like I said, if I could go 'down there' for cash, there's no reason I couldn't kiss them too.

Truthfully, I think it's a rebellion thing. I think that with the guys that just won't do it, it's a way of drawing a line. It says, "If I don't do this one thing, then I'm not really gay." or "I'll save face." I think it's a way of asserting masculinity when it doesn't feel like all that much is left. But that's just a guess.

Again, can we have some of the straight models chime in on this? I'd really like to get their point of view.

John

 

[silvercamel]

Thanks for the replies, guys. I understand what you're saying, but I'd really like to hear from the straight guys too. No disrespect to any of you, but it would be nice to hear it 'from the horses mouth' so to speak.

I do understand the intimacy thing. For some guys, kissing is more intimate. It is for me as well. I remember as a teenager, having sex for the first time, I wouldn't kiss a guy that I was with - not because it wierded me out - but because I was just experimenting at that point and I didn't want him to get the idea that I had feelings for him (I didn't.)

But it's a little different when it's for pay. Like I said, if I could go 'down there' for cash, there's no reason I couldn't kiss them too.

Truthfully, I think it's a rebellion thing. I think that with the guys that just won't do it, it's a way of drawing a line. It says, "If I don't do this one thing, then I'm not really gay." or "I'll save face." I think it's a way of asserting masculinity when it doesn't feel like all that much is left. But that's just a guess.

Again, can we have some of the straight models chime in on this? I'd really like to get their point of view.

John

I think you summarize it perfectly - it's that" If I don't do this one thing"...etc. I hope you get some straight guys to respond...there are not too many of them on the forum.

 

[joeychuck2]

I remember seeing a car stop and a neighbor got out and kissed his dad goodbye it was strange to see. Wish more people kiss.

 

[Troika]

I think the lack of kissing wouldn't bother me until I watched the Diesal and Jimmy video 2. Watching them kiss was almost as hot as watching them have sex. I especially loved when Diesal bit Jimmy's bottom lip and tugged a bit. For me it was a *SHAM-FUCKING WOW* moment.

 

[joeychuck2]

Kissing a neck while fucking is great to see but also to do and have done to you.

 

[mikeyank]

Again, can we have some of the straight models chime in on this? I'd really like to get their point of view.

John

I would love to hear from the straight guys too, John. But I'm afraid that the true straight guys that we have on Broke Straight Boys's are the one's that have zero interest in our forum, or in posting on it. I believe it is the bisexual and curious guys who want to "play" with us in the forum. But if any straight guys are reading this, please do tell us your feelings on this issue. Thanks.

 

[Troika]

Kissing a neck while fucking is great to see but also to do and have done to you.

EEEKKK!! I have a thing about my neck. It's silly but I don't like it to be touched, now watching it, not so bad. I even like that one scene with Diesal held Jimmy down by his neck...which was very surprising considering my phobia.

 

[JohnnyG919]

I would love to hear from the straight guys too, John. But I'm afraid that the true straight guys that we have on Broke Straight Boys's are the one's that have zero interest in our forum, or in posting on it. I believe it is the bisexual and curious guys who want to "play" with us in the forum. But if any straight guys are reading this, please do tell us your feelings on this issue. Thanks.

Well, I guess I was kind of hoping that maybe some of the 'straight' models would have something to say. I have seen some of the models appear in the forums from time to time. Perhaps David could talk one or two of them into it.

 

[lesit78]

Any of the guys who refuse to kiss usually get low ratings, and low opinions by the members at least on the forum. It's a sure-fire way to severely limit your money making potential in porn (and lower your own ratings).

In my opinion, the straight thing is hot as hell...but it's even hotter once they finally start doing a little kissing now and then -- a la Diesal and Jimmy. SO HOT!!!!

I'd be willing to bet that we won't be seeing much of CJ after he finally makes his much anticipated permanent exit from Broke Straight Boys scenes, and in my opinion it's because of his attitude and obvious disdain for having gay sex with guys. I'm curious if there are any studios out there who would be willing to hire him.

Hopefully he is marketable in something other than porn.

Abe