slimvintage
BSB Addict
He maintains that he and I knew each other first! And that it makes it better with his girl. It's called sophistry, but it's his choice to make. In any case I'd rather he came to me than branching out into less secure territory for what he needs. And finally, this is a fairly usual situation in Spain and Italy where male "friendships" are tolerated between guys with wives and families.
Is this guy hot? Would you be cool with it if he came onto you in a bar? If you like the looks of him, the NEXT time you see him don't mention the billets doux under your door, just ask him if he'd like to hang out as if it were your idea in the first place. Then tell him that at the moment your version of hanging out, given the weather, is a couple of sixpacks, a video and some good conversation. If he says OK and turns up for the date, try this: tell him to get comfortable on the couch while you get him a beer or whatever. While you're doing that, call from the kitchen to "...have a look at that stack of DVDs on the coffee table, and check if there's anything you haven't seen..." Out of 8 DVDs, 5 of them are gonna be gay porn. Give him a minute, and then another shout, "...not sure what I've got in that pile, if you don't see anything interesting we can look in the rack...". When you come back in just be cool, here's your beer, is it warm enough in here, how bout some peanuts and potato chips to go with that? Oh, and did you see anything you'd like to watch, some of those are a friend's, I haven't seen all of them...
You've left it all up to him. You've made it really really easy. You haven't embarrassed him while he looked at the DVD cover pix. Actually you'll probably know by the time you get back with the beers what those notes really meant.
Nota Bene: If you're not out, this might be a bad idea
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Ok, I'm modest. NOT!! LOL!! He's not bad, but a couple other things have happened that distrub me. I won't get into details. I'm actually not sure he's doing this. I have had the thought that someone is out to get him. AND me. He appears straight. I guess I should just take the plunge and ask him, what the fuck?!! 
He dropped his pants to show me his bush. I was intrigued, since I didn't have one. We did nothing that night. But at school, of all places, we started to diddle. He was big! Of course, I wasn't as old as he was. Good times. My family moved to a town 20 miles away that year. One day he rode his bike 20 miles one way to visit me. I immediately took him to my room and locked the door. My kid sister pitched a fit as I wouldn't let her join us. My sister and I were best buds, but she had no idea what we were up to. My parents were home and made me open the door. So ended what would have been a very nice time. My friend went home, embarrassed. I never saw him again. The other guy and I were friends for years. We also had girlfriends. I never blew him, but he blew me. He got Mr. Hand from me. We messed around infrequently. Usually when I was drunk or stoned. We were roommates for a while in a house with a bunch of other boys and girls. Boy do I have stories about that house! LOL!! I really came to dislike this guy. He turned into an asshole. Now remember, I disliked this guy at this point. One night I had taken a shower and had just a towel on. I was very tired and fell asleep watching TV. Apparently, the towel fell off in my sleep. Yeah, ok. I had the most erotic dream, only to wake up to find him blowing me. That was the last time with him for me. Remember, I thought he was an asshole. I was passive in those days and did nothing about it, although he ran away when I woke up. Dumb ass. I suppose I would have been a bottom, if I had been into that. LOL!! He is a douche bag. I haven't seen him in years. I heard he was convicted as a pedophile this past summer. A boy between 3 and 12. I have no idea how old the child was. Like I said, he is a douche bag. An evil douche bag. 
