Hey, Tim -
Thanks for posting this. I have a thousand fetishes, and pissing is certainly not the top one, but. . .
Though sex isn't ALL about the physical, it certainly starts with the physical. And when I am attracted to a guy (let alone in love with him!) all his physical being arouses me, quite a lot.
We all (I suspect) get turned on by a cute guy "coming" - because you know that he is feeling such good feelings within himself, and experiencing stimulation, relief, and JOY. I guess, honestly, I have also been turned on by the sight of a cute guy eating (and satiating his hunger); sleeping (and getting blissful rest and relief from conscious cares); exercising (and releasing tension through exertion): and so on.
The "golden-shower" fetish is a little "out-there", but . . . I think the principle is the same. Pissing is a huge physical relief and comfort - when you have to go - of course! For guys, it also involves the penis, and all its sensitivity - and, for the voyeur, it sort of focusses attention on a beautiful cock, as well. . . . And, for guys who like to GET golden showers, it is one of those things, I think, that because it is so INTIMATE (and has been thought of as being "private", or "dirty") signals an absolute pleasure in your lover's physical nature, and human needs.
I wouldn't go out of my way to ask for it, every day. . . but, I wouldn't turn down Mr. K. if he wanted to pee on me, either - LOL, and *blushing*. Kind of a fun diversion, to my way of thinking.
"A" XOXOXOXOXOXO