Welcome to the site, MaleMan69! Is the "69" the year you were born; how old you are; or your favorite position?
There is a wide variety of scenes to please almost everyone some of the time, but not every one all of the time. So I hope you find that your time is well spent here.
As to the forum, we are a bit of a dysfunctional family here just as all families are, but the key word is family. You will find a wide range of views expressed, the vast majority of them done so with civility; and when someone goes beyond that, then somebody or somebodies in the family will call the offender to task.
I look forward to reading your posts.
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