Been a while...

[gremlin2k08]

It has been quite some time since I last visited this site and forum. Life has been quite busy. J and his father have been working on building our new home. Most of the house has been built. The filtration system for the well water needs to be put in still. And the Master bedroom has a bit of work left to be done... After those are completed the driveway and the garage will be completed and our home will be ready to live in. I have posted a few pictures of how the house looks as of now. When everything outside is complete I will post additional pictures.

We have been very blessed these past 18 months with everything that has transpired. His grandparents have come around, as well as most of both of our family's. Things are looking up for both of us. J and his father will be starting a business together if all goes as planned. Buying homes at auction and 'flipping' them. As for me, I will continue my work in food management as well as my game design passions. It will interesting to see this year unfold.

I have greatly missed everyone on here and look forward to reading your replies.

 

[grace17]

Hi, Gremlin, I'm Grace.

I joined in May so we haven't conversed yet, but I have come across your comments in the archives and I'm looking forward to getting to know you...

 

[JLipps4u]

Welcome back Gremlin!

2012 was a very busy year. Thank God it is over! Glad to hear so much good news for a change. The house sounds nice, how lucky you have been, or as you say, Blessed. Continued good luck to you in the New Year.

 

[Beth]

Hey Gremlin,
Welcome back; I'm Beth and I joined a little over a year ago. Although I am straight with a husband, glad to hear that you have family that supports you two. I am definitley of the thinking that love is love and it doesn't matter what the sex, but it is always better when love is respected by those who are close to you. I hope you like to post; sometimes there just aren't enough perverts posting...shame.

 

[tampa24]

Hey Gremlin!

I am so glad to see you back with us. Thank you for all the updates on how your life is going. Congratulations on the house! It's just beautiful.

 

[peterh6308]

Hey Gremlin, so happy to hear your family's are coming around. Life is better when you can share yours with your family. I have known quite a few people over the years whose family chose not to accept them for what they are, and that is a wound that never heals. I don't know you but my guess is, your good fortune is a result of being a good person.

 

[Valentine]

Hello, Gremlin. I am Valentine. I joined about a month ago and have posted some here. I'm not sure, yet, just how I feel about the forum and the porn here. I am exploring my inner voyeur and joined because of a couple of clips I saw but the scenes that are being posted weekly aren't doing all that much for me. I have had sex with both men and women, lots of it in my younger days. I have been married since I was 45 to a man and it is monogomous relationship. I am now 57.5 years old.

I'm a female and am old and fat wishing I were still young and not fat and making peace with myself over a lot of things in my life, some of which I've had control over and some which I haven't. One thing we don't have control over is who we love so I am glad that you and your man are together and winning over the hearts and minds of your respective families. Are you two married or will you marry if it becomes legal in your state? The photos of your home are very nice.

I joined facebook at the same time I joined this post. For many years I have been pretty closed about my private life and now that I am retired and kind of lonely without the daily interfacing of co workers (who as social workers were fairly like minded) and finding myself now living in a Republican stronghold of retirees, I figured I needed to branch out a bit. With facebook I've connected with old lovers, old high school classmates, old neighbors, etc. just like one would expect. Today I got slammed over two of my posts by an ex supervisor of my ex supervisor. He had issues over my continual postings on gay marriage civil rights issues and something I posted on child abuse yesterday (that was the area he and I worked in in my last job). He said he thinks things should be lighthearted on facebook and he doesn't want to see this stuff. I told him to feel free to unfriend me or stop receiving my feed and also let him know that I don't work for him anymore so he doesn't get to tell me what to do.

My usual MO when I get my feelings hurt is to run away. If you read back through some recent archives, you will see that I got my feelings hurt here too, recently. The fences are mended, so to speak, but it is always hard for me to shake the feeling that I have done something wrong and alienated people just by being myself.

I do think that the presense of woman and "old farts and bores" (not my opinion but it has been expressed here) probably inhibits younger men from posting. I wonder if I should scram or just read the posts and keep quiet and they might come out of the woodwork more. It would probably make this forum a more exciting place for members who are silent but

maybe reading the posts.

Truly, I am only staying for the forum at this point. I find the porn on other sites more stimulating. After the initial titillation of seeing these reportedly straight boys fiddle around for the first or second time I'd rather see them go for it more and quit pretending it is loathsome. I know that many models on other sites are gay for pay but that is not presented and they fuck like real gay men even if it is directed, it is more subtle, and I'd rather see that.

I have spent hours combing the net to find a stash of scenes I have downloaded. I'm pretty picky about what turns me on. I like some of the amatuer stuff where two lovers allow us a peak into their bedroom. I like lots of kissing that makes it look like the men are in love and I especially like frottage. Evidently, lots of gay men do too but there aren't a lot of lengthy scenes promoting it. Again, lots of combing to find ones that float my boat, as they say.

I have been enjoying reading older posts for the past couple of days of real life sexual encounters of several of the members here and that is worth the price of admission, for sure.

Anyway, welcome back.

I'm probably saying too much again as a newcomer and an old person with the wrong body parts. But welcome back. I hope to get to know you, if I remain a member.

 

[joninliverton]

Welcome back Gremlin. Glad to see things are going well for you.

 

[Ms. Kianna]

Welcome back, Gremlin! I am so happy to hear things are going so well for you, and it sounds like you continue to be loved and spoiled by that wonderful husband of yours...

 

[tampa24]

Welcome back, Gremlin! I am so happy to hear things are going so well for you, and it sounds like you continue to be loved and spoiled by that wonderful husband of yours...

I think he des a fair amount of spoiling and loving on his husband too.

 

[mikeyank]

Welcome back Gremlin! It is wonderful to hear from you, to see your lovely new house and to find out that married life is so agreeable for you!

Please don't be a stranger.

 

[mikeyank]

I do think that the presense of woman and "old farts and bores" (not my opinion but it has been expressed here) probably inhibits younger men from posting. I wonder if I should scram or just read the posts and keep quiet and they might come out of the woodwork more. It would probably make this forum a more exciting place for members who are silent but maybe reading the posts.

Actually Valentine, we have had a number of younger male "forumites" here over the years, and I don't think the presence of either women or older men inhibits them from participating.

We all came here initially because of our attraction to hot young guys having sex on camera, and whether we are 18 or 88, male or female, gay, straight or in between, we all belong here equally as members of this site.

I would hope that you don't allow one person's rude comment reflect on the whole forum. We are largely an open and accepting group here. We may differ in our opinions of what and who is hot and not, but I find it interesting to read about, and to discuss our diversity of taste all within the genre of this site.

 

[vicekid]

Gremlin,

It is so, so good to have you back. Your words of wisdom have truly been missed. As our first Forum member to get "married" it is great to here that not only is married life treating you well, but, both families are beginning to be more accepting. Love is Love and if we everyone would just accepted it, life throughout this planet would be soooo much better off.

Those are some great photos of your new home. So now just one questions for you and J, 1) when is the housewarming party and 2) when will the invitations be going out.

Live Long and Prosper,

Vicekid

 

[tampa24]

Dear Valentine,

I don't have time right now to give a proper response to your post. Suffice it to say that I want you stay and allow us to befriend you even more than we have already. And hopefully vice versa. Many of us stay here on the site because of the forum alone and all the friendships it has helped us develop. The porn on the site goes through periods of highs and lows, (with more highs than lows), while the possibilities of stimulating, thought provoking conversation in the forum never cease. I have a feeling for instance that if you can give it another 2-3 weeks, after we've worked through the latest crop of newer less appealing models, that the quality of the porn will be back on a much more solid footing.

 

[gremlin2k08]

I would like to thank everyone for the kind words. I have been blessed beyond what I ever dreamed possible. J and I are still finishing everything in the home with hopes of moving in fully in March. A few additions will be made over the next 3 years , Including a guest house(budget permitting). As for my spoiling of J.... I will leave that to your imaginations.... . Regarding the house warming... Honestly have not thought on that so invitations are on a hold for that at this time. Valentine, no apologies are needed for your heart filled message. If you have time feel free to look back at my post. I'm certain you will find I am a very accepting and caring person, as are many on this forum. Do not allow a few bad experiences hinder you from expressing your voice. We are each blessed with a message of our own. And it would be a true tragedy if even one is silenced. Again I am so thankful for everyone of you. Take care.

 

[peterh6308]

Hello, Gremlin. I am Valentine. I joined about a month ago and have posted some here. I'm not sure, yet, just how I feel about the forum and the porn here. I am exploring my inner voyeur and joined because of a couple of clips I saw but the scenes that are being posted weekly aren't doing all that much for me. I have had sex with both men and women, lots of it in my younger days. I have been married since I was 45 to a man and it is monogomous relationship. I am now 57.5 years old.

I'm a female and am old and fat wishing I were still young and not fat and making peace with myself over a lot of things in my life, some of which I've had control over and some which I haven't. One thing we don't have control over is who we love so I am glad that you and your man are together and winning over the hearts and minds of your respective families. Are you two married or will you marry if it becomes legal in your state? The photos of your home are very nice.

I joined facebook at the same time I joined this post. For many years I have been pretty closed about my private life and now that I am retired and kind of lonely without the daily interfacing of co workers (who as social workers were fairly like minded) and finding myself now living in a Republican stronghold of retirees, I figured I needed to branch out a bit. With facebook I've connected with old lovers, old high school classmates, old neighbors, etc. just like one would expect. Today I got slammed over two of my posts by an ex supervisor of my ex supervisor. He had issues over my continual postings on gay marriage civil rights issues and something I posted on child abuse yesterday (that was the area he and I worked in in my last job). He said he thinks things should be lighthearted on facebook and he doesn't want to see this stuff. I told him to feel free to unfriend me or stop receiving my feed and also let him know that I don't work for him anymore so he doesn't get to tell me what to do.

My usual MO when I get my feelings hurt is to run away. If you read back through some recent archives, you will see that I got my feelings hurt here too, recently. The fences are mended, so to speak, but it is always hard for me to shake the feeling that I have done something wrong and alienated people just by being myself.

I do think that the presense of woman and "old farts and bores" (not my opinion but it has been expressed here) probably inhibits younger men from posting. I wonder if I should scram or just read the posts and keep quiet and they might come out of the woodwork more. It would probably make this forum a more exciting place for members who are silent but

maybe reading the posts.

Truly, I am only staying for the forum at this point. I find the porn on other sites more stimulating. After the initial titillation of seeing these reportedly straight boys fiddle around for the first or second time I'd rather see them go for it more and quit pretending it is loathsome. I know that many models on other sites are gay for pay but that is not presented and they fuck like real gay men even if it is directed, it is more subtle, and I'd rather see that.

I have spent hours combing the net to find a stash of scenes I have downloaded. I'm pretty picky about what turns me on. I like some of the amatuer stuff where two lovers allow us a peak into their bedroom. I like lots of kissing that makes it look like the men are in love and I especially like frottage. Evidently, lots of gay men do too but there aren't a lot of lengthy scenes promoting it. Again, lots of combing to find ones that float my boat, as they say.

I have been enjoying reading older posts for the past couple of days of real life sexual encounters of several of the members here and that is worth the price of admission, for sure.

Anyway, welcome back.

I'm probably saying too much again as a newcomer and an old person with the wrong body parts. But welcome back. I hope to get to know you, if I remain a member.

You can never say to much Valentine. Your comments on this forum are welcomed and just as important as anybodys. Keep coming back sweetie!! Have you checked out all the bonus sites we have here? You are bound to find something that tickles your fancy.

 

[rrhill]

And the Master bedroom has a bit of work left to be done... .

Welcome home Gremlin,

In a good relationship there's always a bit of work to be done in the master bedroom...

 

[gremlin2k08]

Welcome home Gremlin,

In a good relationship there's always a bit of work to be done in the master bedroom...

And the kitchen.... the shower.... the hot tub..... and many more

 

[Markymark]

And the kitchen.... the shower.... the hot tub..... and many more

I found a great counter top cleaner for the kitchen, gremlin, good for wood and tile. Just watch out for the splinters! LOL!

 

[gremlin2k08]

Please do tell