joninliverton
BSB Addict
I've decided to open a new thread on this subject as I didn't want the subject to continue on Ian Dempsey's thread.
I quote Stowe1s and Tampa's discussion
Originally Posted by tampa24
I believe what he says is true. Plus the term "broke" is very subjective for all of us...both younger and older adults alike. Regardless of how wealthy one's family may be, an 18-19 y/o guy tends to always want his own money for the next new thing without humbling himself to go hat in hand to one or both of his parents. As any of us can surely relate to, when one seeks money from parents one has to explain and justify every expense and purchase. Whereas if it's your own money you can spend it on anything...regardless of how important or frivolous it may seem to others.
Parents giving a new car and having $10,000 in scholarships hardly constitutes broke in any subjective definition of broke. I agree, if a person strikes out on his own and is barely making it or not making it and can't provide for the basics of shelter and food, and he or she wants no help from the parental units (Coneheads reference - lol!!) then he can be considered broke by any objective or subjective measurement of that term. From what I can gather from the brief scene interviews and other bits of info we have, most of our models are not broke in that sense of the word. And for those of our members who want to fantasize that these guys are broke in the socially accepted meaning of that word, Ian's letter is the latest and most detailed example of the fact that is not true. Faced with that, it can be hard for those members to keep that fantasy going. I spent my 14 closeted coming out years with hustlers, street trade, etc. Very few were homeless and without the means for sustenance. Thus, I never had the illusion that the guys here were any different.
I quote Stowe1s and Tampa's discussion
I believe what he says is true. Plus the term "broke" is very subjective for all of us...both younger and older adults alike. Regardless of how wealthy one's family may be, an 18-19 y/o guy tends to always want his own money for the next new thing without humbling himself to go hat in hand to one or both of his parents. As any of us can surely relate to, when one seeks money from parents one has to explain and justify every expense and purchase. Whereas if it's your own money you can spend it on anything...regardless of how important or frivolous it may seem to others.
Parents giving a new car and having $10,000 in scholarships hardly constitutes broke in any subjective definition of broke. I agree, if a person strikes out on his own and is barely making it or not making it and can't provide for the basics of shelter and food, and he or she wants no help from the parental units (Coneheads reference - lol!!) then he can be considered broke by any objective or subjective measurement of that term. From what I can gather from the brief scene interviews and other bits of info we have, most of our models are not broke in that sense of the word. And for those of our members who want to fantasize that these guys are broke in the socially accepted meaning of that word, Ian's letter is the latest and most detailed example of the fact that is not true. Faced with that, it can be hard for those members to keep that fantasy going. I spent my 14 closeted coming out years with hustlers, street trade, etc. Very few were homeless and without the means for sustenance. Thus, I never had the illusion that the guys here were any different.