Anul Sex

[**casper**]

Hi guys,

I would kinda like to ask a question about anal sex and hope that none of you will mind and will give me a honest and serious answer.

I had tried to add Tyler and Logan to my friends list so that I could just ask one of them and not totally have to embarass myself by asking the guys here on the forum. (Well, Tyler and Logan will not seem to let me add them and I realize that in reality we are not really anything important to them. Probably see everyone as a pervert and freak or something like that.), so I have to ask some of you because I really want to know.

1) How much does it hurt to have anal sex and at what time would it stop hurting...I mean does it just hurt for a second while they are trying to get inside you or does it hurt the whole time. or does it only hurt when they get the head in and not the shaft since it is usually not as big as the head.

2) How much does the lubrication really help and does it ease or have no affect on the pain at all.

3) if a guy is inside you then what does it feel like when he is pushing it in and out...does it just hurt like crazy...I mean do you really feel it much and how does it feel when you are feeling it? Do you have any way of describing the feeling that I would understand? and I noticed in some of the videos that they go really fast while they are pumping you and does that actually feel better or worse...I mean does it just hurt the same but in faster cadences or does it actually add anything to ease the experience?

4) will having anal sex do any damage to your prostate or colon? I mean will it puncture it or cause prostate or colon cancer or will it make you bleed alot. I don't really know how to ask the question.

5) about the bleeding...are you going to bleed alot inside if someone was having anul intercourse with you. I know sometimes when you cut yourself and you like touch water or something to wash it off then it really stings alot? If you are having anul sex does it sting like that?

6) I also wanted to know about what would happen if they came inside you...I mean would it feel like...hmmm lets see

One time I went to the doctor because I had to have a physical to play on the baseball team and the doctor put KY jelly on his finger and pushed it inside my hole to like feel the prostate or something like that. When he was done then it felt all slippery inside me. (It felt kinda neat actually and I can't say that I didn't like the feeling of the ky inside me), Does it feel the same or different if someone came inside you...would it just feel all slippery and slimy inside you or would it burn, or what?

This would have been alot easier if Tyler or Logan would have just added me to their damn friends list so that I could ask them because I could use video refferences like the pictures and the videos while they were getting it done to them. Then I could be sure of the answer they gave me. I know all of you here will think I'm a total idiot but, I just want to know.

also...one of my friends here on the forum answered some questions about the Prostate fluid that David was mentioning while Tyler or Logan was pumping the Holden guy. I think he gave me a clear answer but I still wish that Tyler or Logan would tell me what it actually was...I mean did they cum inside the guy or what...What was the fluid?

and lastly, and this is really stupid but...Do they get shit all over your dick when you are having anal sex with them. That would so totally freak me out to have shit on my dick so I just thought I would ask.

if I left anything important out of the questions then please answer them also.

I forgot to ask about the different positions I've seen on this site...which one hurts the less and what are the benefits of all of them...I mean whats the pros and cons about them and what makes them better than some of the others.

Casper O

 

[baal]

1) How much does it hurt to have anal sex and at what time would it stop hurting...I mean does it just hurt for a second while they are trying to get inside you or does it hurt the whole time. or does it only hurt when they get the head in and not the shaft since it is usually not as big as the head.

It varies according to their size, force used, and how much you can relax. First times tend to hurt a lot unless you're hammered...

2) How much does the lubrication really help and does it ease or have no affect on the pain at all.

Use a lot at first and it will lessen pain. Expect pain! Unless you line your hole with cocaine I can't think of a way to completely avoid it at first...

3) if a guy is inside you then what does it feel like when he is pushing it in and out...does it just hurt like crazy...I mean do you really feel it much and how does it feel when you are feeling it? Do you have any way of describing the feeling that I would understand? and I noticed in some of the videos that they go really fast while they are pumping you and does that actually feel better or worse...I mean does it just hurt the same but in faster cadences or does it actually add anything to ease the experience?

Even when it hurts, it feels awesome. It's like something is there that should have been. It also helped me that I was in full body contact as well, something I love about sex...

4) will having anal sex do any damage to your prostate or colon? I mean will it puncture it or cause prostate or colon cancer or will it make you bleed alot. I don't really know how to ask the question.

I'm sure there's someone out there who has been hurt but no one I know has had this kind of damage.

5) about the bleeding...are you going to bleed alot inside if someone was having anal intercourse with you. I know sometimes when you cut yourself and you like touch water or something to wash it off then it really stings alot? If you are having anal sex does it sting like that?

I've never ever bled and I've taken some whoppers. I've caused bleeding. It depends on a lot of factors but I've never heard of anyone bleeding enough to worry about...

6) I also wanted to know about what would happen if they came inside you...I mean would it feel like...hmmm lets see[/QUOTE]

Contrary to erotica, you don't actually feel someone cum. You feel the pace of their thrusts change, how rigid they are change, but it's imagination if you feel a firehose going off up your ass. Now, dripping out of you after you feel and it's not the fun part...

and lastly, and this is really stupid but...Do they get shit all over your dick when you are having anal sex with them. That would so totally freak me out to have shit on my dick so I just thought I would ask.

I try to wash thoroughly and eat sparingly when sex is iminent and have only
had this happen once. It can be mostly avoided...

 

[tampa24]

Hey Casper,

Baal has done us all a great service by answering some of your questions from his perspective. I was and am just as anxious as you to hear the answers to some of these questions from those in the know. In spite of the fact that I have several years on you, I do not have much experience with anal sex either. Mikeyank and I both agree that anal is not the be all and end all of gay sex. Maybe if I found the right person I would feel differently.

Oral sex, frottage and mutual masturbation are other options for making love also. I must admit though that none of those are considered intercourse.

With my limited experience I would reiterate and expound on only a couple of points that Baal makes.

Bleeding... Yes. Anal can definitely cause bleeding for the person bottoming. But not always. And as Baal says though, if it does happen it is not usually enough to be overly worried about.

Hopefully you will never know what it feels like to have a guy cum inside you. It is too dangerous! Baal is also right though that for those of us who were dumb enough to try it and lived to tell the tale... The sensation is not like a cannon going off inside you or anything. Just the sensation of the contractions that the penis is making at the moment of orgasm.

Hygiene.... Yes. If there are no precautions taken beforehand there will be feces on the condom or penis from anal intercourse. Anal can be a dirty, nasty, smelly business. That's partly why I'm not so fond of it. The reason that anal looks so squeaky clean in porn videos is because the model bottoming has used enemas beforehand. It usually takes more than one treatment with an enema to clean out the intestinal tract. Sometimes the model will flush the rectum with up to 3 treatments with an enema. One model on another site says that after the first enema is done, that he refills the bottle with plain water for the next 2 treatments. Because the chemicals can start to burn after more than one time.

 

[joninliverton]

Agree with what most reactions to Caspers post is. 'Tis a pity that Logan or Tyler did not add you to their friends list but it's probably because they're too busy. I know Logan is still at school so can you imagine if he had loads of friends on here, he would be all day answering your questions.

As a fairly natural bottom, I love being fucked but even after an 18month relationship - which has sadly now ended - it still sometimes hurts at first penatrations, but thereafter it turns me on so much that nowadays being single I have a few toys to replace men. Less hassle and less personal shit.

Casper, maybe you should try a few toys at first with lube of course. See if you like it, but even if you do you are not obliged to then go and get the first guy you see and let him do you. Tampa is correct about anal sex not being the be and end all of sex and although I mentioned that I do enjoy being fucked, there were more sex sessions between me and my ex that were non penatrative.

So go with your personal feelings and not just do it because you havn't done it before. I personally think you need to find out which side you're batting for first before you even consider "anul". Of course if you end up having anal sex, then always use a condom.

Take care xx

 

[slimvintage]

Casper, one of the ways to avoid pain and broken blood vessels is to dilate the anal sphincter muscle first--by hand, either with fingers (first one, then two, etc)--or with something more or less dick shaped, like a Dildo or vibrator. Plenty of lube, some patience and consideration, and your dick slips into your partner much less traumatically, even if he's a virgin. If you are going to bottom you can even do this yourself while sucking the other guy's dick or kissing him or doing 69 or jacking each other or whatever.

Apropos of this, having an erection at the moment of penetration, and wanking your cock or having it wanked, makes the operation much smoother. Somehow the two erogenous zones being "handled" simultaneously makes entry much less traumatic. Since a big stiffy being pushed in can make folds in the interior anal surface, that do hurt, it can help to push out (yeah, seriously) while he is pushing in. In that way he's not collapsing your asshole inwards but simply opening the way for his dick to go into you. Jesus it's getting warmish in here.

If you're serious about trying this I can probably find for you the site where you can order a sort of douche attachment (a smooth stainless steel cylinder shape with spray holes at the tip) that you screw into the hose on your shower. It's about the diameter of your thumb and fills you up with warm water (obviously you moderate the shower force for an enema like this) which you then squirt out while sitting on the john. Do it as many times as you need to to empty out your tract, and you'll be a perfect candidate for fragrant, accident-free rimming and fucking.

In order that you never have to try it, unless you eventually get into an LTR with an HIV- guy you trust, I'll tell you about the "cum sensation" that both guys get when one shoots inside the other. If you're bottoming you definitely feel the pulsations during ejaculation, when his dick swells up and spasms. If he stops thrusting at just this point you can really feel the change in his morphology. Depending on the cubic centimeters he has saved up for you, you can actually feel the ejaculate pulsing out of his dick as well. Conversely if he pumps your ass right through the orgasm, both of you can feel the change in friction, as you're filled with a new source of "lube".

Finally, when a guy's dick finds your prostate gland (mostly by accident) and sets up a massage situation as he thrusts into you, at the same time as kissing you and jacking you off, and telling you how smokin' you are and how much he loves you, you can call yourself a lucky little hottie.

Enough of this. What's your nearest airport. You need a one on one really. Only way.

 

[tampa24]

Depending on the cubic centimeters he has saved up for you, you can actually feel the ejaculate pulsing out of his dick as well.

I didn't know that. Thanks Slim!

 

[joninliverton]

Casper - Go and watch todays update film on College Boy Physicals There is some good advice from the Dr on lubes and also some toys to view.

 

[Denny Bear]

This has actually been a very interesting and informative thread. Casper you have done us a favor by posting it. May I ask what process you went through to try and friend request Tyler and Logan and what exactly happened? I know they do accept friends or at least they did as I have both of them. I know they got hit real hard and asked folks not to send them private messages. It may take them a long time to accept your request though as they are tied up at school. You may still just be sitting in their in box waiting for approval.

 

[LesterM]

CASPER You have made me a little crazy with some of the things you have said on this forum HOwever in the spirit of brotherly love I am going to tell you this and listen VERY CLOSELY AND PAY ATTENTION. NEVER NEVER NEVER FUCK ANYONE OR LET YOURSELF BE FUCKED BY ANYONE WHILE NOT WEARING A CONDOM AND NEVER NEVER EVER LET ANYONE CUM INSIDE YOU EVER Copy my post and put it on your ceiling. Play safe and you will live to play for many years and get tested for HIV every 6 months

 

[**casper**]

Hi Lester,

If I posted anything that upset you than let me know and I will delete it. I don't want to make you too crazy...although a little crazy could be fun...

Your also on my friends list so you are very important to me Lester M and I want to keep you happy.

I love you LesterM

Casper

 

[thomas1023]

Casper - Please do not ever feel you can't post anything here on the forum. You asked some great questions, some of which I don't think I would ever ask. There's people here of all ages and experiences and you never need to apologize or feel embarrassed for simply asking a question or sharing an experience. I've found the forum a great place where one can express their feelings and experiences, let alone some of the great humor and serious debates all rolled into one place. There's some great people on here who I would call my friends even though I've never 'met' any of them.

Take care and keep asking those questions!!! Thomas.

 

[Reubenjames]

Casper.
The first time you try to put anything in your anus it will hurt. So start off small.
First have a nice warm bath or shower, wash your hair, ( the action will help to relax you of any tension in your neck or back,) lie on your bed on your left side, this brings your bowel into line.(Less pain). Then gently insert either your Dildo finger. or but plug, use lots of lube, if at first you don't succeed, try again or leave it a while and try again latter, but keep trying, the old saying no pain no gain. It will get easier with trying. As David would say go at your pace.
Casper never share your sex toys with anyone unless you use a condom, only have safe sex, don't have sex under the influence of alcohol or drugs.
But most of all ENJOY YOURSELF.
Reuben James RGN.
Snr Matron

 

[LesterM]

Dearest Casper I was only kidding you Say and post your thoughts and I will respond I want you to be safe and well and find all the love you need Be at peace with me I mean you only the best. I am sending you nothing but love

 

[yabba]

I agree with the points made but some additional anatomy might be helpful. I'll go question by question.

1 through 3 I can't add anything useful except that your rectum and colon have no pain receptors. The most you get there a feeling of pressure. The anal ring has a lot of pain receptors and the stretching of the ring is most of what pain is present.

4 No problem with cancer. The tissue of the colon has the consistency and of wet cardboard and minor abrasions and trivial bleeding is likely there ans in the anal ring. This makes infection very easy which is why condoms should be used. Major bleeding is unlikely except with toys or fistfucking. By toys in this case I mean broomsticks or pipes. If there is major bleeding there is perforation so get to a hospital at once. When shit gets into the abdominal cavity only gallons of antibiotics can save you. Using only a penis this sort of problem is very unlikely. Positions have to do with allowing maximum penetration with minimum discomfort.