A straight guy lets another dude suck his dick. Is he gay, straight, bisexual?

[BrokeStraightBoys]

There has been quite a bit of debate about what would classify a guy as straight, bisexual or gay since I started Broke Straight Boys Some people say if a straight guys lets another guy suck his dick even once he is gay, which really makes no sense. I always had thought what is this guy doing in his personal life. Is he chasing after women or guys? Just because a straight guys lets another dude suck his dick he shouldn't be labeled as gay but I see it all the time in the comments here on Broke Straight Boys I have encounters with a straight guy with kids where he has let me suck his dick about a dozen times. What would you classify him as? How about a straight guy that does gay porn for only money. What would you classify him as? What makes a guy straight in your eyes?

 

[Jaybifla]

I think some men just do gay things out of curiosity and fun. I don’t think it makes them necessarily gay or even Bi. I’ve known gay men who have done things with girls out of curiosity and that doesn’t make them straight or bi. I think a lot of gay men are judgmental out of their own insecurities about their sexuality.

 

[SGVBOB]

Glad you brought this thread to the light, Mark! I, have to admit, while in my 20s and 30s, I was QUITE the bottom whore, meaning where/whenever I could get a dick, I would take it. Having belittled myself just now, I would have a NUMBER of different straight guys come over to my place, either after school, or after visiting their girlfriends', or work-before going home. In fact, one "regular" that was on the football team would often come over unannounced after football practice and shower as I was sucking him off, and at his young age already was thicker than I.

 

[mikeyank]

You’ve tapped into my favorite subject Mark. Sucking straight or straightish youngish, (over 18 of course), guys is my favorite fantasy/thinking about/reading about/watching on video and especially back in my younger days, actually doing.

Now we get to your question of if they can be considered “straight” if a man sucks them off. I say yes, but that’s what I want to think. The truth is that there is no true answer as sexuality is fluid……and so the question cannot be definitively answered…but I still love the subject, pretty much more than any other.

 

[mikeyank]

My “obsession” with straight guys began when I was a young prepubescent kid lusting after older teens on the beach in our summer Long Island town, and continued until instead of lusting after older teens, it came to pass of my lust was for younger straight guys. My porn desires gravitated in the same direction when gay porn movies and videos began to emerge. But I bored quickly with traditional gay porn featuring gay guys. I found a couple of “adult” book stores in Manhattan that carried magazines and videos of straight guys posing, jerking off, getting sucked off for cash. This type of film is what lead me here to B.S.B.

The original version of B-S-B—1 directed by David featured exactly the type of guys I lusted after and here was a place that three times a week I could watch the development of a “believably straight” guy from reluctantly stripping, touching, getting sucked and eventually get into anal, (which was never my favorite part but what most want to see). Guys like Tyler Evans Mike Robbins, Logan and Tank Shane were the one’s who floated my boat. And so to get back to Mark’s question, in reality they were not as straight or with some guys not straight at all, but they fulfilled my fantasies as did guys I met in real life who would let me suck them off, sometimes for pay typically on vacation in Fort Lauderdale. In the world of adult entertainment in 2025, these type of sites are no longer exist, and I guess I could go to OnlyFans and the like and maybe I will at some point, but that was and will always be my sexual fetish and it is why I am typing this response on this site today.

 

[kgmets2]

All gay porn viewers are quite familiar with "gay for pay" straight models, who do gay videos for the money and are totally straight in all their other sexual activity. But that leads to the broader issue, the decades old Kinsey Scale on American Male Sexuality, which in terms of same sex male attraction, found only 10% totally straight, only 10% totally gay, and 80% in between subject to strong social conditioning to think and act as if they are totally straight with bis included in the 80%. Clearly the "gay for pay" models come from the 80% group as do the straight teen boys who enjoy receiving blow jobs from other boys, when their girlfriends are not putting out. Further, if one makes the historical comparison of modern America to ancient Greece, the ancient Greek more fluid tolerant sexual social conditioning encouraged (particularly teenaged boys) to follow their sexual attractions and partake of both genders for sex as a part of their development, examples being teen aged male students having sexual relationships with their adult male teacher/mentors and after school moving on to marry females and having children, and the ancient Greek Olympics consisting of all young male competitors competing in the nude with only other males allowed to be spectators. Thanks for the great thought provoking post!

 

[willedge]

I think no, bro-jobs are just helping a buddy out. Not Gay. Still completely straight, but got off. Are circle jerks gay?
I just wish in my youth there were more guys looking for a bro-job or circle jerk!
The newer generations, talking with my daughter and son are more explorative and accepting. just friend's helping friends.