Straight Men & Gay Sex

[mikeyank]

This is not specifically about Broke Straight Boys or even gay porn necessarily, but it could apply. I've been thinking about asking this question here for a while now, but I've not been sure on how to phrase my question properly. But let me try.

Do you think that any straight guy could potentially have a man on man sexual encounter if the circumstances were right? My answer has always been no, and my feeling has been that only a certain percentage of men have the proclivity to be turned on by having sex with another guy, even including just having a guy suck their dick and doing nothing in return. I believe in the Kinsey scale and that the guys who fall into the less than 100% straight category are the one's who while considering themselves straight that could accept head from a guy, whether for money, (like hustling or being in a porn video), or being in a situation with no females available, (like the old all male military or being incarcerated). I always felt that a true straight Kinsey 0 would rather jerk off than have any contact with another guy.

But I've asked some gay friends recently and they told me that based on personal experiences that they think that any guy would accept head or more under the right circumstances. I've sucked off lot's of straight identifying men, but I always thought that at least a part of them wanted to see how it feels, whereas others would never agree to accepting the blowjob. I'm real curious for other people's opinion, as I've held a fascination for straight guys since my pre-teen years and that's the reason I joined this site in the first place.

 

[bentley14]

Kinsey Report, published in 1948- in this day is wayout dated to say the least. Many things have transpired since then even by the 60s. The advent of the sexual revolution. However more than that the internet has opened the door to greater expansion of sexual experimenting and acceptance. Straight is as wind blows. My sexual life has been straight first,getting married, then military my first guy bj,he was married alsohe introduced me at a bar to another guy who was a married bottom guy. no kissing for either an so on. I met and had sex with hundreds of married guys in the military.It was the 60s. My thoughts are based on my history so take it leave it as you wish. I have gone the gamut now and proud to be gay, and do not regret the journey.

 

[Observer]

Do you think that any straight guy could potentially have a man on man sexual encounter if the circumstances were right? MY ANSWER IS ABSOLUTELY FUCKING YES!!!!!!
I have been having sex with straight guys since high school. I was a jock in high school, and college and in pros in both USA and europe and I only had sex with straight guys. it is all about the personality and atmosphere and relationships. All my partners were athletes and a few nerds. I have only been with a handful of gay guys. I prefer straight guys.

 

[juanjo]

I think that just as there are gay men who will not under any circumstances ever touch a woman, there are straight men who will not under any circumstances touch another man. My personal experience has been that the completely straight guys are a small minority. I have met a lot of men who were very clearly identifying as straight and who would under the appropriate circumstances fool around. There were others who I met when I was younger who fooled around more out of curiosity and then decided it really wasn't their thing. I have a good friend who comes under that category. He fooled around two or three times with other men and decided that it really did not hit the spot for him so he is happily heterosexual.

In Mexico and Argentina, two countries where I spend a lot of time the situation is different from here. In both countries, being "gay" is still viewed by the majority of the population as being effeminate and the passive participant in anal sex. That has started to change but the attitude still prevails. Thus, there are many straight guys in Mexico for example who will happily engage in same-sex sexual activity with other guys so long as you do not try to stick a dick up their ass. I have some good friends in a small town called Tecuala up the coast between Mazatlan and Puerto Vallarta. I occasionally go there to visit. The young men in that town are a horny bunch and it did not take long before I had a string of regular late-night visitors to my hotel room.

 

[mikeyank]

I think that just as there are gay men who will not under any circumstances ever touch a woman, there are straight men who will not under any circumstances touch another man. My personal experience has been that the completely straight guys are a small minority.

I very much agree with the two sentences of your's juanjo that I quoted. I know that I am in the small percentage of completely gay men who will not under any circumstances ever touch a woman sexually. And it is all the men in between the two extremes, (the Kinsey 0's and the Kinsey 6's, if you will), which includes the men who although identify as straight are the one's that we gay men have the chance to have sex with.

But whatever you folks believe is the case, I would love for more of you to offer your thoughts and opinions on this "most fascinating" subject, at least to me.

 

[Jaybifla]

I think it is different when it comes to porn and money. Straight men are treated differently. There’s automatically an assumption that a man performing gay for pay porn is automatically bisexual or gay. They couldn’t possibly be straight. However, if someone like Richie West who identifies as gay, were to do a porn with a woman, no one would automatically assume he was bi or straight. Or a straight woman performing with another woman for lesbian porn. Straight guys are treated differently, and it isn’t really fair.

 

[SFPS01]

I think that just as there are gay men who will not under any circumstances ever touch a woman, there are straight men who will not under any circumstances touch another man. My personal experience has been that the completely straight guys are a small minority. I have met a lot of men who were very clearly identifying as straight and who would under the appropriate circumstances fool around. There were others who I met when I was younger who fooled around more out of curiosity and then decided it really wasn't their thing. I have a good friend who comes under that category. He fooled around two or three times with other men and decided that it really did not hit the spot for him so he is happily heterosexual.

In Mexico and Argentina, two countries where I spend a lot of time the situation is different from here. In both countries, being "gay" is still viewed by the majority of the population as being effeminate and the passive participant in anal sex. That has started to change but the attitude still prevails. Thus, there are many straight guys in Mexico for example who will happily engage in same-sex sexual activity with other guys so long as you do not try to stick a dick up their ass. I have some good friends in a small town called Tecuala up the coast between Mazatlan and Puerto Vallarta. I occasionally go there to visit. The young men in that town are a horny bunch and it did not take long before I had a string of regular late-night visitors to my hotel room.

I would have to agree with you completely. The key word is "under the right conditions". I think that straight guys who feel a closeness to another guy are likely to feel comfortable having a sexual experience with that guy. That doesn't make them gay. I think many guys are moving away from labels like gay and straight when trying to identify their sexuality. My experience with straight guys is that they can have man to man experiences without identifying those experiences as "gay"

 

[StudddAndy]

All people begin life at conception as a female. Because of the "Y" chromosome, male fetuses begin to transition into males. For some reasons that we do not entirely understand, some fetuses do not make it all the way to being a straight male.

We do not know why certain people are exclusively heterosexual. Maybe they've never had a chance to get their dick sucked. Or just have no sexual interest in people of their same sex. We don't understand it. Often the person doesn't understand it. But if the fucker is horny as the normal males is, you can get hour lips on his dick in most instances.

If you ask about my long experience, this is what I believe about it. ALMOST any straight guy will let you suck his dick if he believes three things:

First, there is a place where this can happen that is totally safe and that NO ONE will accidentally come into and find him out.

Second, that he can trust you to NEVER tell anyone about it. Because you have no friends in common. Or that you are a KNOWN trustworthy person.

Third. That he will NEVER see you again. He doesn't want to let you suck his dick and then, everytime he sees you after that, the whole topic comes up again.

That's why people have good luck sucking Military guy's dicks sometimes. The total anonymity of the situation. Vacations in far away places.

 

[kgmets]

I think that just as there are gay men who will not under any circumstances ever touch a woman, there are straight men who will not under any circumstances touch another man. My personal experience has been that the completely straight guys are a small minority. I have met a lot of men who were very clearly identifying as straight and who would under the appropriate circumstances fool around. There were others who I met when I was younger who fooled around more out of curiosity and then decided it really wasn't their thing. I have a good friend who comes under that category. He fooled around two or three times with other men and decided that it really did not hit the spot for him so he is happily heterosexual.

In Mexico and Argentina, two countries where I spend a lot of time the situation is different from here. In both countries, being "gay" is still viewed by the majority of the population as being effeminate and the passive participant in anal sex. That has started to change but the attitude still prevails. Thus, there are many straight guys in Mexico for example who will happily engage in same-sex sexual activity with other guys so long as you do not try to stick a dick up their ass. I have some good friends in a small town called Tecuala up the coast between Mazatlan and Puerto Vallarta. I occasionally go there to visit. The young men in that town are a horny bunch and it did not take long before I had a string of regular late-night visitors to my hotel room.

The first paragraph of your post is very consistent with the Kinsey scale..

 

[kgmets]

This is not specifically about Broke Straight Boys or even gay porn necessarily, but it could apply. I've been thinking about asking this question here for a while now, but I've not been sure on how to phrase my question properly. But let me try.

Do you think that any straight guy could potentially have a man on man sexual encounter if the circumstances were right? My answer has always been no, and my feeling has been that only a certain percentage of men have the proclivity to be turned on by having sex with another guy, even including just having a guy suck their dick and doing nothing in return. I believe in the Kinsey scale and that the guys who fall into the less than 100% straight category are the one's who while considering themselves straight that could accept head from a guy, whether for money, (like hustling or being in a porn video), or being in a situation with no females available, (like the old all male military or being incarcerated). I always felt that a true straight Kinsey 0 would rather jerk off than have any contact with another guy.

But I've asked some gay friends recently and they told me that based on personal experiences that they think that any guy would accept head or more under the right circumstances. I've sucked off lot's of straight identifying men, but I always thought that at least a part of them wanted to see how it feels, whereas others would never agree to accepting the blowjob. I'm real curious for other people's opinion, as I've held a fascination for straight guys since my pre-teen years and that's the reason I joined this site in the first place.

A related concept is sublimation, where young men 100% heterosexual in their sexual contacts satisfy their same sex attraction in "non sexual" ways sanctioned by straight society, such as the intimate male on male contact in high school and college wrestling (check out the thread you started on Professional and College Sports for lots of pics of that) or in other high school and college sports the patting or slapping the ass of the team mate who just made a good play. Give one of these jocks a few drinks at a college party, and perhaps his male on male attraction could be addressed in a more overtly sexual way.

 

[AtlantaGuy]

Interesting quote Juanjo: Ludwig van Beethoven — ‘Plaudite, amici, comedia finita est.(Applaud, my friends, the comedy is over.)[Said on his deathbed]

 

[juanjo]

Interesting quote Juanjo: Ludwig van Beethoven — ‘Plaudite, amici, comedia finita est. (Applaud, my friends, the comedy is over.)[Said on his deathbed]

I have always liked that quote. although I have heard there is some dispute over whether or not Ludwig actually said it. I prefer the think he did. It appeals to my twisted sense of humor. I intend to have it engraved on my tombstone.

 

[juanjo]

I think many guys are moving away from labels like gay and straight when trying to identify their sexuality.

It is something I have seen among the younger guys in the teens and twenties. Far many more of them seem much less concerned with the idea of being "gay" or being "straight" and the stereotypes associated with those labels. I think that is a healthy thing myself but it does on occasion make an old fart like me very confused.

 

[mikeyank]

I've enjoyed reading the comments so far. I'd love for other members to give their thoughts on this most fascinating subject to me!

 

[Foxyman1961]

This is a very interesting subject and in fact very relevant to something I have seen on TV this week. One of the channels in the UK has broadcast a programme entitled the lesbians guide to straight sex, when I saw this I was fascinated to find out what possibly it meant. So the basic premise is a couple of lesbian presenters answer questions posed by straight couples on how to improve their sex lives. In the programme a couple wanted to give the guy an orgasm by massaging his G spot but they didn't know how to this (or so they said). The advice given was that basically in order for the man to get is orgasm he needed to have something inserted into his anus in order to fulfil this. They advised that a strap on was what they required and that the woman would need to wear this, which didn't go down to well with her. They then went on to say that 50% of straight men wanted to ge fucked in order to experience this and that many turned to other men to fulfil this need, but did not consider themselves to be gay as they were in a relationship with a woman and that many women didn't like to wear a strap on to do this. I suppose the point I am making here is that many men seem to be more open in the 21st century to exploring their sexual needs and labels don't seem to apply like gay or straight but a desire to be fulfilled drives this and no longer matters if it's a man or woman that fulfils this. As we know in the porn industry its money that drives whether a model bottoms or not and how often have we seen that many that try this actually enjoy it, many of these still identify themselves as straight. Ben Dover springs to mind in his latest pre scene interview. As society in the western world becomes more tolerant to human sexuality I hope labels like gay or straight need no longer apply although I think we are a long way from this being an actual fact.

 

[juanjo]

This is a very interesting subject and in fact very relevant to something I have seen on TV this week. One of the channels in the UK has broadcast a programme entitled the lesbians guide to straight sex, when I saw this I was fascinated to find out what possibly it meant. So the basic premise is a couple of lesbian presenters answer questions posed by straight couples on how to improve their sex lives. In the programme a couple wanted to give the guy an orgasm by massaging his G spot but they didn't know how to this (or so they said). The advice given was that basically in order for the man to get is orgasm he needed to have something inserted into his anus in order to fulfil this. They advised that a strap on was what they required and that the woman would need to wear this, which didn't go down to well with her. They then went on to say that 50% of straight men wanted to get fucked in order to experience this and that many turned to other men to fulfil this need, but did not consider themselves to be gay as they were in a relationship with a woman and that many women didn't like to wear a strap on to do this. I suppose the point I am making here is that many men seem to be more open in the 21st century to exploring their sexual needs and labels don't seem to apply like gay or straight but a desire to be fulfilled drives this and no longer matters if it's a man or woman that fulfils this. As we know in the porn industry its money that drives whether a model bottoms or not and how often have we seen that many that try this actually enjoy it, many of these still identify themselves as straight. Ben Dover springs to mind in his latest pre-scene interview. As society in the western world becomes more tolerant to human sexuality I hope labels like gay or straight need no longer apply although I think we are a long way from this being an actual fact.

Back in the early Feudal period when I was in university, I had a crush on a handsome young man we chall call Tom. We became friends and although he was quite straight and adamant about not wishing to do anything with another man, he was a good friend and actually quite affectionate. We stayed in contact after school and about 8 years later I was invited to the wedding of Tom and his longtime live-in girlfriend. In the course of an evening of smoking herb and drinking scotch, Tom informed me that one of his favorite sex acts he performed with his soon-to-be wife was her to use a Dildo on him while he was screwing her. I was quite amused and informed him that it was no surprise to me now to understand why he did not want to have sex with me, we were both bottoms. Yes, we are still friends.

 

[Repareur]

I have always been fascinated by straight guys and what you can get them to do. Even back in the Kinsey days they were surprised to learn that most men had some kind of sexual experience with another male. In fact it’s pretty rare for that not to be the case. It’s evidently true for women as well but not quite to the extent as men. Freud thought we all go through a homosexual stage. I used to say I never grew out of mine. But I think he had a point. Maybe it’s not so much a phase as a curiosity. I played with a few guys and girls at a young age. I also believe that it is even more common in cultures where women are set apart. On my trips to Egypt I found it to be one of the gayest countries I’ve ever been to because it’s taboo for unmarried women to be out at night or with men. All of these men hanging out together tend to turn their natural hornyness to their friends and from what I could tell tourist. I’ve never been propositioned more in my life.

What I find challenging is the chase and excitement of what you can get a straight guy to do. When I brought a gay guy home that just threw up his legs I was not turned on. The challenge of getting a straight guy to do it is so much more exciting. I would get off on how much I could get them to do. I often dealt with hustlers or guys down in out or in trouble that you could influence with some cash. On a few occasions the most they would do was take off their cloths. Not even let me touch them. That in a way was very hot. These were probably Kinsey 0. Most of the time you could do something. Even fuck them. Especially if they needed drugs. I liked to talk to hustlers and find out why they were doing it or what got them in this situation. In the gay area I lived at in Dallas. Some guys heard you could make money from the gays who mostly were content with blowing them or getting fucking fucked. I wanted to fuck these guys. Many times they would try it. I found them very similar to early Broke Straight Boys guys who got talked into trying more each time. Sometimes it took a little time and a few experience to fuck them. Likewise I would find curious guys at parks wanting to try it out. I’m sure many of the ones who said they were virgins really weren’t but some of them. Were especially some that I ended up having somewhat of a relationship with. It took a while to get them to try it but often they would become bottoms like some of the guys on Broke Straight Boys do. It’s what I enjoy about the site. It really does mirror some of my own experiences back in the day. Not as much any more. But I’m an optimist. I keep waiting and hoping.

 

[kgmets]

It is something I have seen among the younger guys in the teens and twenties. Far many more of them seem much less concerned with the idea of being "gay" or being "straight" and the stereotypes associated with those labels. I think that is a healthy thing myself but it does on occasion make an old fart like me very confused.

Interesting point. We all are familiar with what straight, bi and gay mean, but of late younger people are using new terms such as metro sexual, pan sexual and others. We need a younger Broke Straight Boys member to define these new terms for us. I think that metro sexual is a young urban affluent male with longish hair and trendy clothes who fucks females, flirts with males and may suck a dick or two. I'm guessing that pan sexual is a glorified term for bisexual.

 

[Jaybifla]

I think that metro sexual is a young urban affluent male with longish hair and trendy clothes who fucks females, flirts with males and may suck a dick or two. I'm guessing that pan sexual is a glorified term for bisexual.

LOL. I laughed at the “may suck a dick or two” I want to find me a metrosexual guy for sure.

I think pansexual is someone who is attracted to anyone, including transgender.

I wish there was a BSBsexual. It’s any present or former Broke Straight Boys model who is attracted to and wants to fuck a Broke Straight Boys forum member.

 

[Repareur]

LOL. I laughed at the “may suck a dick or two” I want to find me a metrosexual guy for sure.

I think pansexual is someone who is attracted to anyone, including transgender.

I wish there was a BSBsexual. It’s any present or former Broke Straight Boys model who is attracted to and wants to fuck a Broke Straight Boys forum member.

I heard Brice Jones was asking for your number.