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Do Bottoms Prefer Bigger Dicks?

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I've bottomed, but mostly top. At dinner tonight the topic of sick size came up. Two of the guys are dedicated bottoms. Both claimed that big dicks are easier to take. I never even thought about that. Full Disclosure: All the guys who have topped me have had nice sized dicks. So I had little to contribute to the discussion, but it did arouse my curiosity. I'd be interested in other opinions.
 
Hi elyot, I will give you my opinion, but it may not be as other's. I am a top, however I can be versatile for the right guy. I have little to no opinion on size. I know this sounds corny, but it is the person. I have been with all types, in my life. I get into the person, even when I was active, Being bigger than norm, I guess , I never looked at size as most people have.
 
I find this question very interesting and I am really curious to read the answers!
 
Bartirah said:
I find this question very interesting and I am really curious to read the answers!
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I think there is a bit of truth to this. Particularly when it comes to longer dicks. My first x who was a big bottom, loved big dicks. He said they were better because they could make longer strokes and not come out. If the dick is shorter and you are doing serious fucking and stroking. The shorter dicked guys tend to come out a lot and jam back in which is often more painful than just staying in so that’s what I believe he was talking about.

Part of it depends on how much of a bottom queen the guy has become. When it comes to big thick dicks and super huge dicks, it’s mostly really experienced guys who are craving those dicks. I don’t bottom often and I prefer one not so big. I did have a boyfriend with a very long dick that was not that wide. It was nice. Always sat on it before I would let him fuck me but it was nice.
 
I have been of the state of mind that "its not the size of the sword that matters but how well you duel" and the person its attached to.
 
I am and have always been a big, 'ole bottom. I like dicks in the 7-8 1/2 inch length department with about 5 1/2-6 inch girth as an ideal.

I have had larger over the years. An Australian guy in Florida in the mid seventies was 10 1/2 and ample girth and he could really fuck. But I have found in my experience that the guys with the super dicks really don't know how to use it. It is just in-out, in-out. I like guys who vary speed, motions, and movements - which I always talk about when commenting on scenes here. Fortunately I have a high pain tolerance, so I don't really feel that much pain. Just at initial penetration and then just pressure as the top proceeds.

I don't like pencil dicks. You can have a 9 incher but if it is too skinny, then I feel nothing.
 
Repareur said:
I think there is a bit of truth to this. Particularly when it comes to longer dicks. My first x who was a big bottom, loved big dicks. He said they were better because they could make longer strokes and not come out. If the dick is shorter and you are doing serious fucking and stroking. The shorter dicked guys tend to come out a lot and jam back in which is often more painful than just staying in so that’s what I believe he was talking about.

Part of it depends on how much of a bottom queen the guy has become. When it comes to big thick dicks and super huge dicks, it’s mostly really experienced guys who are craving those dicks. I don’t bottom often and I prefer one not so big. I did have a boyfriend with a very long dick that was not that wide. It was nice. Always sat on it before I would let him fuck me but it was nice.
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You raise a good point about a long but thin dick. It can enter a well lubed butt painlessly due to its thinness but really hit some pleasure spots due to its length. I'm guessing that tops with long think cocks get all the ass to fuck that they want.
 
I think it is curious that most of my gay friends always talk about big cocks. And when I went to gay underwear shop with Rep in Dallas all the dildos they had there were huge.

In any conversation about anal sex among women they would say they would prefer a small cock because it is less scary. And the dildos we have in regular sex shops, in the women's section aren't enormous... They are 7 inches tops!
 
Bartirah said:
I think it is curious that most of my gay friends always talk about big cocks. And when I went to gay underwear shop with Rep in Dallas all the dildos they had there were huge.

In any conversation about anal sex among women they would say they would prefer a small cock because it is less scary. And the dildos we have in regular sex shops, in the women's section aren't enormous... They are 7 inches tops!
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Don’t get me lieing about women because I don’t have tons of experience with them but it’s my understanding there is only a certain depth that can be penetrated. If you watch straight porn, many of the guys have big long dicks but they generally don’t penetrate the whole way in women. Men on the other hand can usually take it much deeper. The exception is when the colon turns inside to where a big dick is hitting the wall at a bend which can be rather painful. My guess is that it’s more important how they use the dick in stimulating a woman than the actual size. If she is going to take it up the ass I’m guessing they don’t want a very big dick because women don’t have the prostate pleasure center back there. I did however fuck a girl in the ass while the straight guy I was after fucked her pussy. We could feel the movement of each other’s dicks which was hot. Of course I didn’t get going till I poked the young blond stud while he was fucking the girl.

I’m not that into big dicks. I am after their ass and I’ve found many big old built guys are lacking in the equipment department. It has been my experience that most smaller dicked guys are bottoms. I knew one who was really into getting plow jobs. It was easy to suck him because it wasn’t long and didn’t hurt to deep throat. The current big straight guy I’m playing with doesn’t have a very big one. He said I don’t know why you are interested. Easy it’s his Virgin ass I was after. It made sucking easy and I liked watching it get rock hard as I entered his virgin whole. I have noticed that if a dick is too short it’s hard to fuck a guy. Especially one with a big bubble butt. Unless you get them really spread open it’s hard to penetrate because you’ve got to get past those big cheeks. So in that case it helps to be long and I think big dicked guys like to do this. For me it’s generally tighter from the back. I’m into tight holes and straight guys give you that. I’m sorry to say this but when they throw those legs up too fast it’s usually not as fun for me.
 
Medium is better than small or huge. I've stopped things because of a guy being way too big. If he's not gonna be my partner for longer than a short time, why get torn up and used to it?
 
I think it's more how you use it than the size, but if your a regular bottom my opinion is that only a big one will satisfy!
 
I don't bottom too often but for the right guy, I definitely would as much as he wanted me to do it for him. As for size, as long as it's no bigger than 8 inches. Anything larger is torture for anyone who does not bottom regularly and I can't imagine it being pleasurable for the top either.
 
Same here 6 to 8 inches max for me how some people can take 10 to 12 I'll never know I guess we are all built a little different.
 
cosmo41 said:
I've never had a dick in my ass,but I think it would be nice . never sucked a dick want to
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Welcome to the forum!!! Tell us more about you! We are curious!!! It's always nice to have new guys around!
 
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