Let's take a look at this logically, shall we? Without all the emotional entanglements.
First let me state my belief. I believe that there is nothing inherently wrong with pornography or with people (men and women) who are in the porn industry. I also believe that there is nothing wrong with prostitution. Being paid money for sex, either on the screen or off, should be treated as just another job. We all get paid for our skills, whether that skill is calculating mathematical equations, selling our manual labor or selling our ass. There is nothing wrong with any of that.
Second, if you are going to be employed at a particular job, you are going to need to have the skills and qualifications for that job. Knowing how to operate a skiploader enables me to have a job in construction. If I lose the knowledge of how to operate a skiploader, or become physically unable to operate a skiploader, I will no longer keep my current job.
(If I do lose the ability to operate a skiploader, most likely I will get government assistance to retrain me for a new job. Which is one of the reasons why I believe the porn industry should be recognized as a legitimate career.)
I have read many accusations of
Broke Straight Boys members being “superficial.” The accusations have made me chuckle. But I have felt no need to respond. Now I do want to respond. Not to yell and condemn. But, hopefully, to explain. At least to explain how I see things.
The guys having sex on
Broke Straight Boys must meet certain qualifications. Just like anybody in any job. They must be able to get and maintain an erection. They must cum. And they must be attractive to a reasonable number of people. That is not superficial. That is the job description. I will never be paid by
Broke Straight Boys to have sex. I have a belly and I have grey in my beard. But then, my job description does not require me to maintain an erection while operating a skiploader.
I do agree that as a society we should be civil and respectful of each other. And it seems to me that we seem to be loosing our ability to be civil. But as my wife always says, “Freedom is for the brave, not for cowards.” It is true that slander and libel are illegal. But the truth is a one hundred percent defense. I can call Lindsay Lohan a drunk. It is not nice. But it is protected under the law for it can be proven to be true. Freedom is for the brave.
I like Bobby. I found him more attractive with his curly hair. I don’t find him to be overweight. I don’t like his tattoos. These are my opinions.
I think it’s interesting to note that Bobby’s newer scenes are not in the top ranking. I agree that something seems to be missing. I know he was in jail recently. And I sincerely hope that he hasn’t suffered any trauma. My best wishes go out to Bobby.
I agree that there should be civility and respect in our society. But I also believe that it is bizarre to condemn people for no longer finding a model attractive. While I would never call someone “superficial” for no longer liking a model’s looks, I would hope that we can all be respectful toward each other.